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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How Would You React if Your Date Can't Pay For Dinner? (Page 12) |
on: 11-11-2011 04:35 PM
| 99.9% of the guys commenting are extremely ugly anyway (the only handsome guy I see is @mediaexcell), e ku eshe o. At the end of the day, most of you are ugly and single. Shout out to all the fine gals one time.
Baboon looking guys like me also have a life don't they? Here's a toast to all d handsome dudes n fine chicx in here....
...PICTURE US (ugly ones) ROLLING......... | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How Would You React if Your Date Can't Pay For Dinner? |
on: 11-11-2011 12:03 PM
| Pls sophie no sleep for this topic,lets have a date but chop for house before coming,me too i go chop 4 my house so that when we meet for date,na only pure water and condom we go buy go house go sleep,it is better than to sleep 4 niaja pal.
Why u dey fall 9ja guys hand na? U mean say u no fit even impress her with 50naira bottled water? By d way, wen buyin d condom, make u no buy gold circle sha  | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How Would You React if Your Date Can't Pay For Dinner? |
on: 11-11-2011 11:35 AM
| So I went on a date where a guy asked me out, I chose the location and we ate full. Typically on a first date a guy pays for the meal, but this one told me that his first rule is that he never pays for the first date. I said.. "What?", in awe that I wasn't aware of such a rule. He asked me if I could respect that, I said yes, and just thought this guy has to be joking so I played along like a TV Show. He then looked at me like "Okay so are you going to pay". I said no, I'm not going to pay for that, and looked in my bag to a stack of cash and said "Oh I left my bank card at home and I left my wallet with all of my money so I can't pay". Of course that was a lie, but since he was playing I decided to play too. He then said that he had no money at all that he deliberately left it at home including his Identification. (See me see wahala oo) He was laughing and smiling so I knew it was some kind of scam, but being that he tried to FORCE me to pay for the food, I couldn't bring myself to be respect him. So I got on the phone, called a friend, and said HELP. I cooked up a story that my friend would pay. I got up and walked out of the door and said I would be back. He followed me outside and I wondered why. Then told me that I should come with him to go see some sights. God forbid what kind of foolish antics he had next so I decline and was adamant about meeting my friend. He then confessed that he paid for the food and we should go somewhere else. Emi ko! I was so threw with it all. I didn't want to be around such a creep.  He then sends me a message saying "make sure you have money to cover your own meal" lol I then replied in short saying how he tried to scam me but he met his match. And this wasn't a nigerian, but a Black American, and he also claimed to be a Millionaire. Who cares, he can go to hell with his millions. I think he just wanted to feel like he won, he sat and ate with a beautiful lady AND she paid for her meal, guess he wanted to be treated like a woman. Little things like that make people miss out on good people, oh well. | | | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: 3 Nigerians Jailed For £1m Fraud In UK |
on: 26-10-2011 11:58 PM
| The only way we can have a better Nigeria is when we see ourselves as one people. Forget the tribal differences and let us see this as a Nigerian problem. Tribal war is becoming too rampant on this forum this days and this has hindered our comments on issues like this.
Let dem kno...Theres not one tribe dats not well represented in d scamming business... | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Ways To Get To A Girl's Heart♥ |
on: 26-10-2011 08:43 PM
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12 Be heavily armed with a loaded atm card or a fat wallet
Guy you get mouth, I see Why Sophia said his guy did more than that, that was what he added. [/quote] Global economic meltdown...d heat is high on ladies...only d 'benjamins' can unlock those heavily padlocked heart of theirs | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Steps on how to ask a guy out. |
on: 26-10-2011 08:33 PM
| Ladies we got this...let us sometime make things easy for the guy we are interested in by be the first to make a move.its doesn't make a woman less. men love women that are bold to face them...let us stop this old style like playing too hard to get...some men hate it and lost interest in pursuing you.A dickhead nigge who still want to take you for granted will still do it no matter how hard you played..  ;)Be in the right place at the right time. It's best to ask someone out in person, so you've got to make sure to be where the guy you have a crush on is. This could be at the mall, the movies, school, or maybe at the baseball field if he's an athlete. You don't want to look like a stalker, but you do want to be able to talk to him. A simple hi every time you see him works well. (*Note: Constantly running into each other is a good ice breaker. "Hey, we keep seeing each other everywhere, we might as well become friends. My name is..."*) The guy you want to ask out is most likely to say yes if it's someone you know and are constantly around, at least a few times a week. You should feel comfortable around him and this should be someone who you can talk to easily and will respect you alwaysTake the initiative. Unfortunately, many guys are too afraid to walk up to someone they're interested in and ask them out. Take matters into your own hands. Walk up to him slowly but don't creep him out, and introduce yourself. Even if you already know the guy really well, still walk up to him and make small talk. If he seems to be flirting, flirt back. Keep working at it until you're at full on flirt mode. Try not to do this if he's extremely busy, but at the same time, don't let the opportunity to talk to him pass you by just because you're nervous. If he seems receptive when you introduce yourself, keep on talking to him.
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Make small talk with him. Break the ice by commenting on something he's wearing or saying something about the place or event you're at. Just try to get him to feel comfortable around you.
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Make eye contact with him. While the two of you are talking, make eye contact and try to hold it for just a little longer than you normally would--just a second or two, not too long. If he makes eye contact back, he's probably interested in you.
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Commence flirting This can mean touching him lightly on the arm, for example, or laughing at his jokes. Just be playful and communicate that you're interested. Sometimes you can flirt from afar and entice him to come over to you. Compliment him! For example you could say something like, "I love your shirt!"
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Ask him non-intrusive questions about himself, such as what kinds of things he likes to do, what his favorite kind of food is, or if he likes to play sports. By asking harmless little questions you can find out more about him to determine if you really want to ask him out, and you might find out whether or not he's single. You can also set up the conversation to ask him out.
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Ask him out. Once you find something you both have in common, ask if he'd like to do it together sometime. Do NOT just rush up to him and say the words or ask a friend to ask him out for you! Guys hate that. It is embarrassing. If you don't succeed in finding something you have in common, you might not really find him that interesting, but if you want to take a chance, just let him know that you'd like to hang out with him again.
If he says no, at least he knows you are interested and may get to want to know you more, or if he seems like he needs more time, don't get too upset; work on your friendship, getting closer and building up trust. Chances are he'll change his mind. Just be patient and wait to see what happens. Just say, "Oh, that's okay, maybe another time." Don't be rude and don't hold a grudge. There is no faster way to turn off a guy than to hold a grudge against him for not being as "into" you as you are into him.
If he says yes, plan where and when you will go out, and don't forget to have fun. Since you asked, you should pay for the date, unless he insists. If he wants to pay for the date, then hey - no arguments there, right? Let him pay for the date if he insists--it makes him look like a gentleman and may also indicate that he is serious about pursuing you, which is what you were hoping for in the first place! On a first date, it is recommended that you go somewhere with a lot of people, and somewhere that will have lots going on to keep the conversation going. Going to the movies prevents conversation and can make the situation awkward if there are scary or romantic scenes. Don't expect a kiss on the first date, if it happens, it happens, if not, hopefully there will be a second one.
If he really shows he likes you, start conversations with him -- get to know him and if he doesn't pop the question, you should. Besides, if you are shy, just think that if you really want this, you will ask him. Remember to be yourself and act natural. You don't want him falling in love with someone you're pretending to be and not you
***resounding applause for poster*** | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Ways To Get To A Girl's Heart♥ |
on: 26-10-2011 08:06 PM
| 1 Hug her from behind.
2 Grab her hand when you guys walk next to each other.]
3.When standing, wrap your arms around her.
4 Cuddle with her.
5 Don't force her to do ANYTHING!
6 Compliment her.
7 When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.
8 Say I love you…and MEAN IT!
9 Brush the hair out of her eyes.
10 Comfort her when she cries.
11 Love her with heart and also love her for her ..... ♥ ♥ ♥
12 Be heavily armed with a loaded atm card or a fat wallet | | | | |
