She should keep the baby. Its a human life we're speaking of. Only God can determine when a child would come into this world & only Him should determine when a life should leave this world. We cant play God. We are only actors, in his divine orchestration. Your friend should note, that since she's mature enough to keep a segxwal relationship, she should be mature enough to live with the consequencies no matter how drastic. But i bet you, if she keeps the baby she would enjoy God's favor in many forms for doing what is right, however i cant tell what would happen if she aborts it; it certainly doesn't go rosy for anyone who takes a life. So let her trust God, the father of her baby to be would certainly have a rethink & return to her if his the right one for her. Trust me, having a baby for a man does not certity that the man is the right husband for one & having a baby out of wedlock doesn't any more rule a lady out of finding a good husband.

Our values & culture tends to influence the way we perceive & relate to different issues, including sex. Education, exposure and several other influences has how ever altered a lot of things. Depending on the individual, a Nigerian man is set to give his lover oral sex, if he loves her, trusts her, her neatness level also determines, if she gets oral sex or not?

Before you judge us, does the researcher also know that some Nigerian ladies dont like oral sex, some see it as dirty- hear some girls say things like - stop, its not wise - i dont like it - Its unhealthy - Its unclean. Although they enjoy it, many Niigerian ladies are not too comfortable with this expression of sex.

Our values & culture tends to influence the way we perceive & relate to different issues, including sex. Education, exposure and several other influences has how ever altered a lot of things. Depending on the individual, a Nigerian man is set to give his lover oral sex, if he loves her, trusts her, her neatness level also determines, if she gets oral sex or not?
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