What i believe is that women always want a sense of belonging, loving the idea that "this man is mine and me his". But the idea of feeling better in living together is shying away from ones responsibility and obligation to the devine institution that God ordane. Little wonder then that marriages or living together dont last long. As quickly as they are in, they are out searching. Its thieving what does not belong to one without doing the right thing, that is getting married properly. If one have the right motive and mindset, then one wouldn't think going against devine obligation feels better than doing the right thing. Its stealing. God do not bless such cohabiting.

This is possible. I even knew someone who survived for 17yrs. So what? Of course during the first year it was terrible due to discharge in the night during sleep. But later it becomes normal.

Please, i will just give my humble suggestion which i believe will help you just as it helped me in my youth. People always say that Jehovah's Witnesses are so different which i say can be attributed to what they teach their youths. PLEASE CONTACT THEM AND GET THE BOOK ENTITLED "QUESTIONS YOUNG PEOPLE ASK: ANSWERS THAT WORKS" Volumes 1 and 2 and read through which discusses arays of subjects like the one you just mentioned.

Or contact me on 08059376801. I will be please to send mine to you or if you wish book for another for you.

Its not neccessary bo. What if after all the activities for the day and the party and what-a-view the said husband who is supposed to pup what do you call it falls asleep due to tiredness unko. So what happens now. It must wait till the next day now. Abi if i noo happen, world go finish that night? In fact i recommend family planning so that the honeymoon will be long before they finally put to bed, say like two years of total enjoyment. So why the hurry?

who sweet-talked ladies into sex if not the men and who donated some grains into making them pregnant, the man. The women are naturally slow in respnding to segxwal inducement not after due motivation by the man. So why should not the man has a little share, just seeing what the woman is going through o, not sharing the pain o. Then some men are having the notion that these women is dragging them into their ordeal. He should be a rutless man with no feeling for the women folk. In fact he should be handcuff and dragged to the labour room when his wife deliveres. I, UNDER THE POWER BESTOW UPON ME AS AN ELDER MADE IT A LAW THAT IT SHOULD BE COMPULSORY FOR ALL MEN TO BE AROUND IN THE LABOUR ROOM WHEN THEIR WIFE DELIVERED. ASHE.

Sincerely speaking, we cannot overrule the fact that if we compare our female gender with those of other african countries not to talk of in contract with the Western so called "Civilized World" we will discovered that they are and still remain the most beautiful, sexiest and brainest ones of all. So why won't Nigerian men go for two or three as the sayings go that "Variety is the spice of life". Man can't continue to eat ewedu alone. He must also eat some edikaikon and some Banga, abi. But honestly and scripturally, its wrong and breeds a lot of disunity at the end of the day and portrays selfishness on our part. But if we are considering it from another view, I must say that women are so much this days. The scripture must be fufilled in that in the last days seven women will hold on to the trouser of one man and beg just to bear his name alone. So the women folk don't even bloody care anymore, even when they are aware that you are marry. They are just asking the one at home to just shift a little and let them share her sit.
Wetin man go do now that to take one with from side, another with backyard, another that can cook for the belly and still another that can rap with you and make you happy not just dolling out money and love making alone. A woman who can give the best of advice, practical and that can go on outing with you. Lovely, isn't it? And ineteresting too. I must say that, Nigeria is indeed an interest and never to be forgoten "My Own Country".

Okoh Jacob
Signing Out.