When I read the sort of responses made by especially, my Christian friends from the south, I couldn't help but conclude that Nigeria is done for! Or how could you explain the bigotry that tends not to want to call a spade a spade? A picture is being wrongfully painted that only Muslims have the propensity to self-destruct and unleash mayhem. I am advising that we stop the stereotypical sentiments and tell it as it is. That's the only way to see things the way they truly are and how to get around them.

U were in love with a gurl, u truelly and really loved d gurl and would want to do anything for her. u two were lovers until d day u proposed to her and she joyfully accepted to marry u. As time went on, one thing led to another thing and the disappeared (either kidnapped or she died or she relocated but wasnt her intention to disappear) that u couldnt reach her for months (maybe 8 months and above).
now u found another girl and loved her the way u loved the former one. u proposed to her as usual and she gladly accepted to marry u.
as the wedding preparation preceded, three days to the wedding, the former gurl came back to u nd was feeling very sorry for not keeping in touch all those while; with reason being that robbers stole her handbag containing everything she went out with that day and she was later kidnapped when she tried to retrieve her hand bag from d robbers.

for the guys, what are u gonna do in respect to the wedding?
for the ladies, if it were to be the reverse, what will u do?


for me, i really dont know what to do.
matured answers pls..................................

I NEED AN ADVICE BEFORE I MAKE A MISTAKE.

MY FRIENDS AND MY FAMILY WANT ME TO MARRY A CITIZEN OF NIGERIA WHILE I AM IN LOVE WITH A GUINEA GIRL I MET IN MACEDONIA. I AM SO CONFUSED AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.  SHOULD I FOLLOW MY HEART AND CONTINUE MY LIFE WITH THE GUINEA GIRL I MET IN MACEDONIA OR I SHOULD LISTEN TO THE ADVICE OF MY PEOPLE AND COME BACK HOME AND MARRY FROM MY TRIBE.     

Your comment suggests you are tribalistic. Modern 9ja has no place for tribalism. Are northerners not Nigerians? Be they from the north, south or east, the taking of any Nigerian life is a sad matter for us all.

Bokoharam is just an euphemism,for Northern para-military group,and every crime they've so far committed is at behest of the Northern political and religious leaders!!,so many of the Northern politicians has been implicated in this bokoharam saga,even some of the terrorist who were caught were sprung from jail by their Housa police brothers,(although the police claimed they escaped )humnpppp!!! We know better!,and worse still about 5 terrorists involved in the christmsa day Bombing were released on bail by an Hausa judge!!!,
The Borno state government paid off the terrorist with one hundred million naira(100,000,000), I'll ask you,in all of this world ,have you seen where certified terrorists are paid off or released on bail??? Was it not  a prominent northern politician  who boasted that the northerners will make the country ungovernable,for this present regime,?? and in all of these,none of your political or religious leader has ever stood up to condemn the activities of these Muslim terrorists,!!!
My point is,all the Muslim north are neck deep involved in the bokoharam debacle!!!,so stop blaming your crimes and shortcomings on others!!.

           YOU ARE OF COURSE ENTITLED TO YOUR VIEWS JUST AS I AND EVERY OTHER PERSON OUT THERE!!!..........NO NEED YOU TAKING MY COMMENTS PERSONAL AND GETTING CARRIED AWAY BY SENTIMENTS! 
THERE IS NO DENYING THE FACT THAT NIGERIA IS FULL OF CORRUPT, EVIL PEOPLE , BUT I STILL STAND BY MY COMMENTS, TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT!