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1  Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Crazy!! Mbong Amata Goes On Public Boobs Exposure Spree After Divorce on: 11-06-2014 03:21 PM
Alright, i see half oranges
2  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: VIDEO: We kidnapped the school girls, we will sell them – Boko Haram on: 6-05-2014 02:15 PM
Those that talk bad about Islam, u are all MORON, u na never se a pastor that molest girls and use children for ritual
3  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: WHAT! Gov Amaechi Impregnated Wole Soyinka’s Daughter As They Expects Baby Soon? on: 19-12-2013 12:08 PM
Quote from: FinlandGuy on 18-12-2013 01:02 AM

Governor Amaechi is the most popular Governor of the Century 2013, Action Governor Carry go jor
4  Forum / Celebrity Talk & Discussions / Re: Popular 90s Musician Father U Turn Dies At 36 on: 18-11-2013 10:38 AM
5  Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Why Is This Lady Causing Trouble With Her “Ikebe”? on: 18-11-2013 10:25 AM
@DMG17, the age limit for NYSC in Nigeria is 30years
6  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: PDP Supporter Beaten To Hell (PICTURED) on: 18-11-2013 10:11 AM
 Why touring some polling units during exercise  when he is not Inec official or election observer, he should stay in his polling unit after casting his vote until the end of the election. Na wa 4 us in this Naija ooooooo.

7  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Kenyan Mall Ablaze As Names Of Terrorists And Victims Are Released on: 24-09-2013 01:31 PM
They are not real Muslim but a Terrorist, bandit etc @ anjesco (1630) Your are senseless with that your stupid statement.
8  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: WHAT!! Married Sen. Pastor Arrested For Sleeping With Teen, Her Mom &Aunt -PHOTO on: 18-09-2013 10:52 AM
End time
9  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: FG Order For 53 Gold Iphones To Celebrate Independence on: 12-09-2013 05:27 PM
Lets wait and see
10  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Borno Man Gets 24 Strokes Of The Cane For Having Sex With An Unmarried Woman on: 5-09-2013 02:51 PM
11  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Marriage proposal ends in disaster. on: 28-08-2013 01:46 PM
Husband abuse
12  Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Crazy Nigerian Dancer At The Notting Hill Carnival, UK on: 28-08-2013 01:05 PM
It really End time my brother Cry Cry Cry
13  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Christian Lady marrying a muslim Guy,is it advisable please? on: 6-12-2012 07:58 PM
Sophiebaby, I always like your contribution and you post d way God directed u. I learn from your post a lot, keep it up. But some people post as if there brain is under their leg. We have individual differences and religion does not determine the way people behave some time. After all when u see BOKO u take to your heels.
14  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Christian Lady marrying a muslim Guy,is it advisable please? on: 6-12-2012 07:42 PM
Is it all the Muslim be Boko haram? Nonsense talk.
15  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Christian Lady marrying a muslim Guy,is it advisable please? on: 6-12-2012 07:39 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  6-12-2012 05:09 PM
I once read in a book, ‘Marriages are made in heaven, but the forms are filled on earth.’ Rightly so; when we are in search of a life-partner we create virtual forms in our minds, filling out details of what we want in a partner and what we don’t. Most often than never, we prefer to go with someone who follows the same religious belief as we do so as to make life a lot easier for the two of us. Well, in spite of all our efforts to not marry a person of a different faith, we end up falling in love with someone who does not follow our religion. What’s next? Are we willing to go all out and fight the world (parents and future in-laws) convincing them that the two of us are meant for each other? Are we ready to discuss the issue with our partner on how the two of us will manage the situation once a child comes along? Yes, there are loads of questions that both individuals need to answer to themselves as well as each other and if they are willing to go the whole nine yards to make their inter-religious marriage a success.

There are advantages n disadvantages in an inter religious marriage. now what you are to look at is..What are the steps to be taken for the success of an inter-religious marriage? Before entering into a mixed faith marriage, it is imperative that the both individuals discuss various aspects of such a marriage before they enter into one. Here are a few steps they need to follow:
1. Be true to yourselves and one another: From the very onset of the relationship, it is imperative to be truthful about your religious inclinations and desires. When both individuals are firm on the option of multi-religion, that is, each one not only following their respective religion, but also participating in their spouse’s, or if they choose to form a ecumenical family, then can there be a healthy marriage. Both individuals should respect the other’s religion and remember that every religion teaches goodness and love. Once both individuals discuss which path they wish to take, then only can they approach their parents and seek the latter’s blessings for their marriage.
2. Convince parents: In many cases, individuals who are involved with someone that follows a faith different from theirs, is afraid to approach their parents for fear that their partner will be rejected. It is quite natural that parents would want their child to marry someone of their own faith as they are aware of the various inter religion marriage problems. Parents only want what is best for their children. No parent enjoys seeing their child in pain. They want to make certain that the decision you’ve taken is the right one, which is why the tantrums and buckets of tears. That time will pass. Introduce your prospective partner to your parents and allow them the opportunity to get to know him/her. Let your parents know about your future decisions as far as following a religious faith is concerned.
3. Discuss about children: An important aspect that needs to be discussed by both individuals is their children. This should be discussed before the wedding as this is one of the many inter religion marriage problems. Ask yourselves and each other:

*Do you wish to teach good values and morals to your children referring to both religions?
*Do you want your children to decide on which religion they wish to follow?
*Do you want your first child to follow their father’s religion and the second to follow their mother’s?

Take note: do not force your faith on to your prospective spouse. If they themselves want to convert to your faith, it is their decision.

There are confusions, intolerance, and also there are varieties of Inter religious marriages

I always enjoy your contribution,u post the way God directed u,but some people post nonsense that u can't learn from it.  in fact I learn from your post a lot. Keep it up nice quote
16  Forum / Sports / Re: THE EAGLES HAVE DONE IT AGAIN! on: 16-11-2012 11:57 AM
Not 3 - 0 but 3 - 1
17  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Nigerian Arrested In The UK For Attempting to Defraud A Dead Man on: 14-11-2012 04:04 PM
This kind of issue used to be ratio 1:10. 1 for
 Yoruba man and 10 4 an Ibo man
18  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Okorocha declares free education in Imo State on: 15-02-2012 03:10 PM
I will vote 4 u, if contest for presidential election in the next election, good role model
19  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: 13 Years Old Girl Forced Into Prostitution By Madam, Paid N150,000 Monthly on: 25-01-2012 04:55 PM
The people that patronize the girl should be jailed also.
20  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Police arrest man for allegedly impregnating 17-yr-old daughter on: 20-01-2012 05:15 PM
This world is coming to an end oooo.
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