Man, let me tell u something from a brotha to a brotha. Don't let the mind games of the opposite sex get to you. That's their way of weedin out the little boys from the men. Don't flinch when they do shit like that, just do your thing... girls are slick so just play by their rules. Remember, the solo game can only be played for so long and the patient are the ones that win in the end.

First off let me say hello, since I'm new to this site completely. My name's Ben Otisi, and I'm also unsure of how I ended up here... but I can say there's a lot more to relationships than just mere sex. Personally, I like taking a girl out to dinner, a movie... even walks through the park. Sex is just a means to pass time while in a relationship.