My confused man, I think you are not genuinely in love with this girl. She does not stay with her mum all the time and the little time they spend together, you want her to create the erroneous impression that what she does in her mum's absence is engage men in telephone conversations. If really you love this girl, her respect for her mother should be a plus to your love for her and not a minus. Any way, you have not told us what you really want from this girl. After all, most of you are 'testers'. I advise the girl to be more careful with you.