Aint nothin wrong with. Some ppl think you should be saving yourself until after you marry cuz supposedly the husband should be the one to get it first. But what they're not thinking or understanding is, that same husband you might end up divorcing and hook-up with someone else, whom you'll end up having sex with anyway. So if you're with someone and having sex, i don't see anything wrong with that at all. people are just way into this old time traditional crap that doesn't make sense.. I can understand if there's no such things as separations, then i might agree to wait til marriage cuz your spouse is and will be the only person getting that, but with the way things are today, i doubt it will remain forever..And besides your bf/gf might end up being your husband anyway...This world is so screwed up because of people that are still stuck back in the days..So what if a virgin saved themselves for their spouse, and then the marriage didn't work out, the husband will most likely end up with someone else anyway, so what the hell?..plz this is the new ages...f all that old time crap.