I have 2 guys, started dating the first one in 2003, loves me so much, but i don't really love him. I met the second guy in 2005 and i realised that i love him so much even though he doesn't show me much love and care like the first guy. I'm kind of confused because the second guy is older than me with 10 years and of recent time he's been talking of marriage though he hasn't come out straight to propose to me. The point is that I'm not ready to marry not to talk of settling down with a guy. And my greatest fear is that of a broken marriage, I've seen marriage work fine and those that are frustrating, i don't want to end up with a guy that won't show me much love and care, i love to be pampered by my guy. The first guy is just rounding up is ND in the polytechnic and I'm in my final year studying law in the university. Don't know what to do?