Quote from: mmemshima on 28-10-2008 03:30 PM
enuf big deal in virginity....no STD,no hiv,no guilt,no fear of pregnancy....
i beg 2 differ..but i am not a virgin and i hav no guilt, STD,HIV, or fear of pregnancy cos in this century, there are many means of protecting ursel against these diseases.
and for the virginity thing, i have a couple of question....as a girl, wen u save ur virginity for ur husband, who lied to you that he is saving his own for u?
and those that want to save it till marriage, wen u get married, and give ur husband ur virginity, what happens when and if at all you get divorced?
and those who are abstaining cos they want to avoid STD, havent you heard of cases where the spouse cheats, gets d STD, the passes it on to the other spouse??
the only reason i will acknowledge virginity as abstinence is for religious reasons. Fear of gettx STDs is so trifle cos u have available and at your disposition products to protect you from STDs...