If some one can not love you for who you are, then maybe where he choose to get married is truly of non importance. I agree to some extent American people have come to value marriage less, thus resulting in few who are deemed marriage material. All men want a woman of virtue. as well as women want a man who will take care of his family, and provide love and security. That does not mean that there aren't any good women at all, sometimes the good women get taken advantage of because of the misconception that all western or European women are bad. There are good women here within the United States that have been used for merely a green card, when in fact they cooked, cleaned, worked, took care of their man, quiet, responsible, etc. It is at most irritating when everyone is judged by a select few. If women within the United states or Europe are not marriage material then they are not good enough to provide you with a green card either. Wrong is wrong and right is right. One must ask where are you finding these so call no good women, and have you changed tactics. I was married to a nigerian, and I didn't fit the description of such a bad women. I even took care of his child caused by his affair. So tell me who is bad. How many African women from the motherland can say they would do the same. Everyone needs to stop this nonsense and don't judge everyone by western culture or the lack thereof. There are needles in the haystack you just have to know where to look. We are all human, with the same desires we must learn how we can better relate and understand one another. I don't judge all Nigerian's by what my ex did though most people probably would.
If i say u are 100% right, then i'm not honest. U just said it allll. U don't some1 based on d actions of another.