In my opinion, I think it has to do with the mind set. I mean, ur mind set. U just must prepare for it. Another factor responsible for the pleasure is the guy in question. How much does he know about the act? What does he say to u before, during and after the act (your conversation matters a lot)? Can't really say all for now but I guess this little piece will go along way in solving the problem! Funny enough, theoretical lectures may not adequately solve the problem. Ur guy needs to improve on his skills. Come to think of it, have u ever discussed this problem with him before?
Deceit ma dear, not luv. No one can claim to luv u and be seeing someone else. Don't be deceived, what is not luv, is not luv and what is luv, is luv!!!
It was a nice experience because she respects me for being able to stand the test of time. All the same, am not claiming to be holy. Am just being strong cos I've got to take charge over sex. Sex is made for me and not me for sex. Thanks for ur contributions.
The relationship actually lasted between the period of 1996 - 2006. She got pregnant and gave birth in 2008. All through the period of my relationship with her, I was a virgin planning to get married to a virgin cos I blived and still bliv in my father's teachings. I fell for a girl while working in Makurdi so now, am no longer killing myself over a virgin cos am not one yet I dont kill myself over sex cos I've control. Sex was made for me, am not made for sex. However she wants it, is how she gets it. Am good but not very good.
My opinion is this: I'll accept the friendship without any intimacy. Life is simple! Anybody can be the victim and anybody can make anybody the victim>. U never can tell when u'll need such a person. Am speaking out of experience. One of my ex recently called on me for financial assistance, I dint have at that time so I had to borrow to make it up to her. Life is sweet. We must all learn to be on the positive side of life as my father will always preach.
My babe, whom I kept a ten years relationship without sex was too holy avoiding sex bcos it's unholy and sinful finally got pregnant and gave birth outside wedlock. How funny!
I bliv it's possible to abstain completely cos I was there but fell at 25. All d same, a lot of guys and babes have succeeded so u too can. I wish u the best as u make conscious efforts. God will help u!
This is kind of had but a question to ask is this: why would she get married without due consideration? Anyway, she should brace up and tell her husband so he could make a way out. Though difficult, a matured mind can handle it.
What is the possibility that the second wife will give birth to a male child? To be candid, I wont get married to a second wife for all because of the desperate need for a male child. God being my help, I wont marry a second wife for any reason whatsoever on earth.
Who is looking for a virgin? Are you a virgin? aNYWAY, AM A LUCKY MAN, I've got one and am planning to marry her. I must confess to you that I have seen many virgins and left them virgins bcos I dont joke with them. Guy, it's not all about a virgin, it's about a sweet girl. One who has room for learning. She will make you a good home. Don't rest your case on a virgin.