hmmmmm, well its a good thing, its a symbol of engagement to somebody, in case someone is coming to aproach you, tho is a thing of the heart, but is good to wear it if you really love your wife or spouse.
as a guy, it depends on the girl/lady but i believe a decent girl/lady wouldnt want to go out with a guy dat smokes. he could drink, but not a drunkard i believe and if a girl/lady does it means that they are birds of the same feather.