Lets look at this issue objectively: It is a known fact that in countries where WOMEN are known to demand to be unsubmissive to their husbands or boyfriends experience the greatest number of marital breakups. Ever since the fall of Man in the Garden of Eden,women have been conditioned to accept the rulership. of men And any attempt to break it ,will  continously lead to the breakage of the marriage. this is not about love ,it is a standing order