Why begging now? If their children go to public schools am sure they will not want to c their children sitting down at home doing nothing, God will judge.
Is it by force? How much do you have in your account that u are appealing to them to take 2 millions naira instead of 5 millions naira? guy? am very sure u will live all ur life in debt if you marry that girl!! why can't you look for a simple lady with simple and responsible family that will be after their daughter well being than hungry family that want to dispose their daughter like goods