So sorry for you young man. But my opinion is that the whole mistakes started from you. From what I know, the essence of courtship in a relationship is to know about 95% of each other's lifestyle , temperament s and the like. Now my question is DID SHE NOT TELL YOU THIS DURING YOUR COURSHIp?. Because I strongly believe you wouldn't have fall into this trap. If you probably suspected anything during that time, why didn't you terminate this relationship. Of course, don't even think of divorce now, it's late ( only if you are a genuine Christian). So, my advice?, P R A Y H A R D E R. God can change things for you.