@ fineboy...if you live in the part of the world some of us live in, you will understand why you can not just jump on just any offer to meet someone at a said place. with time, a friendship can develop to such level where u might be able to meet someone at a Starbucks or a public place, but don't expect any decent woman to just on your first few offers.
my beautiful vixen puts it well, the cyber world is a faceless world...its not real! there are too many psychos in the real world.