I know dis is a cooked story but for d fun of it,its beta u call d attention of d man in question n speak to him abt d discomfort of thr action. And for ur wife, nobody way no like beta tin o! lolz!
No wonder Almighty God says in d bible,"dat among everything HE created, HE regret creating man". Now I can c reasons for d statement. God pls shows us d way n direct our steps.