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1  Forum / Relationships & Romance / WHICH OF THESE CAN YOU ALLOW YOUR PARTNER HAVE ACCESS TO? on: 25-09-2013 02:07 PM
1. A.T.M pin
2. Facebook password
3. Receive your Calls
4. Read your SmS/Email
5. None of the above
6. All the above

2  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Illuminati Dates Revealed on: 25-09-2013 01:18 PM

The following dates are when

they make their worldwide

sacrifices to their god of death


January 31

February 28

October 31

July 1

and"September 28"

Now, September 28th is around the


a date when people die


Many might read and ignore


will doubt this.

Now, we declare we are covered


God in heaven and they have no

power over us. Our family, friends,

relatives and loved ones shall


be their death victim, Amen.

Write"Amen"to claim this prayer,

Do not ignore. Share to notify


3  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Do Men Still Care About Virgins? on: 24-09-2013 10:10 AM
I was just wondering if men still care if they meet their wivesas virgins.
And do parents still carry out right like they used to back then ( i mean: by giving the man some piece of white cloth to lay on the bed before mating the wife on the honeymoon to see whether the cloth will be stained by the blood) and stuffs like that
Please what is your say to this post???

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4  Forum / Family / Who owns the bosom?? Father or Child on: 23-09-2013 02:54 PM
I was discussion this with my wife yesterday that the fatherowns his wife bosom but my wife insisted that the baby owns it.
Fortunately,another couple met our argument but the wife supported my wife and the husband agreed with me also with various points in different Views.
That's why I'm sharing this since we have different opinions!!!

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5  Forum / Family / Re: Shocking Photos on: 23-09-2013 02:26 PM
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6  Forum / Family / Re: Shocking Photos on: 23-09-2013 10:55 AM
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8  Forum / Relationships & Romance / ‘I Am Single And Searching’ – Linda Ikeji on: 23-09-2013 07:42 AM
Popular blogger Linda Ikeji has declared that she is single and searching.She stated this on Teju Babyface Show aired Saturday on Television Continental Channel (TVC) in Lagos.
She also listed the qualities of the kind of man she hopes to marry. They include a man who has respect for women, willing to support her work and has a job.
“He should have a job, not necessarily to support me financially,”said Ikeji who confirmed that she earns well from advertisments on her blog, [email protected]
She spoke of her plans to continue blogging for sometime to come and veer into television production.

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9  Forum / Relationships & Romance / World's Most Tragic Wedding (PHOTOS) on: 22-09-2013 10:31 PM
How best can i describe this emotional true life story to my readersas it appears like a script from a Hollywood movie?
A friend who first saw this had her eyes 'laced' with tear after reading it These young lovers,
He Jingjing and her fiance Lu Lai had the world at their feet in 2011 as both had found top jobs in the local government at Guangzhou had recently bought a home and were planning to get married.
But their plans for a long and happy life together were cut tragically short when He Jingjing was taken ill one day at work.
Relieving the tragic events leading up to when his bride-to-be was taken ill, Lu Lai said: ''We wanted a special wedding, so we were doing overtime to make sure we saved up enough.
''She was ill but she did not want to stop work. Then one day I had a call to say she had collapsed at her computer and been taken to hospital.
'They said she had stopped breathing on the way, and had to be resuscitated. 'I was told at the hospital she was alive but later it became clear that she had been permanently brain damaged.
There was nothing we could do for her.' And that was how she slipped into a coma on the way to hospital and never woke up.
Two years on, her family gathered by her bedside to celebrate her 28th birthday complete with a cake, and then took part in a wedding ceremony,
finally fulfilling the couple's dream of marrying before switching off her life-support machine just hours after she was married.
Her emotional father said 'She was our only child, we wanted to have one last special thing together.
'' The Fiance stated that : 'I am happy she will have helped others to live but for me I don't think about her living on in others, for me she will live on in my heart forever. I will always miss her.
'No matter how, she will live in my heart forever.' Her organs will now be donated to help other people in need.

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10  Forum / Family / A WOMAN THAT IS IN LOVE WITH MORE THAN ONE MAN IS A THIEF!!! on: 22-09-2013 09:13 AM
If a woman says she's in love with 2 or 3 men and she's confused as to which to marry?She's a thief and a wicked woman
She deserve to end up heartbroken, don't advice such woman.. If she's a responsible woman she won't be in love with two men and if she claims she's in love with them all then she should tell A she's in Love with B and C and vice- versa
And let's see if she will still claim she's in love with them all after disclosing her love for other men to them.

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11  Forum / Family / ****LOVE POEM FOR THE DAY*** on: 22-09-2013 09:01 AM
As long as u love me
I'll stay by ur side
I'll be ur companion
Your friend and your guide.
As long as youlove me, As long as you care
I'll do anything for you
I'll go anywhere.
As long as forever my love will be true for as long as u love me
I'll only love u. I'll bring u the sunshine
I'll comfort your fear
I'll gather up rainbow
To chase all ur years. I LOVE YOU
How many of u love ur partner??

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12  Forum / Family / A Pregnant Woman Lifting Weights: Is This Safe? on: 22-09-2013 01:20 AM
I had a high adrenalin goose pimples when i saw the video and the images of this pregnant woman doing this; what if the head or legs of the baby just pop out while carrying this heavyweight and by the way, she was 8 months pregnant and only two weeks to her delivery when she took this video!
Lea-Anne Ellison, 35, sparked an online firestorm after pictures of the 8 1/2-month pregnant mom lifting weights were posted on Facebook.
“8 months pregnant with baby number 3 and CrossFit has been my sanity,” Ellison wrote in the caption. “I have been CrossFitting for 2 1/2 years and...strongly believe that
pregnancy is not an illness, but a time to relish in your body’s capabilities to kick Bottom.”
But a slew of commenters posted angry greivances on the picture — which boasted more than 16,000 likes and almost 3,000 shares by Friday morning.
“If anything happens to your baby due to your stupidity, I hope you’ll be able to handle your guilt,” another person wrote. “Pregnancy is NOT the time to be taking silly risks.”
“This is actually sickening, I hope pregnant around the world do not do this kind of crap,” one woman wrote. “I am a crossfit enthusiast but I DO NOT recommend this at all.”
The person continued by claiming the image gives “people the wrong message that this is OKAY when it’s not!!!!”
Ellison — the mother of an 8-year-old boy and a 12-year-old daughter — said she trains to maintain her 'HOT mom' image.
“The key is listening to your body! As a medical professional, I find it appalling the number of people who treat pregnancy as an illness,” another woman wrote. “Multiple studies have shown that you can continue to safely workout, including lifting weights as long as you did it pre-pregnancy!!”
According to the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, 30 minutes or more of exercise a day is recommended so long as there are no medical or obstetric complications.
Scores of commenters were angered by the photos, but several supporters claim regular exercise is good for pregnant women.
“Thank you to all who posted and continue to post positive, supportive comments regarding my photo,” she wrote. “I had NO IDEA what a stir this would create....It makes me feel proud and loved and STRONGER!!!!”
Over to our medical professional, is it recommended? Is it healthy

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13  Forum / FunnyHub (Jokes + Comedy) / Na for Only Mtn you go see motherxmas(photo) on: 22-09-2013 01:07 AM
Lmao shey na so man scared for 9ja ni???

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14  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Stop making your spouse look like a criminal on: 22-09-2013 12:22 AM
Are you a police man/woman?
Do you work for any of the law enforcement agencies?Stop making your spouse look like a criminal by constantly suspecting and monitoring his activities,
it is only a criminal that is being place under constant surveillance. Your spouse is someone you claim to love,your companion, friend,why make them look like a criminal by constantly monitoring their activities just to know if they are cheating..
Nobody loves to be monitored by the law enforcement agents and so if you keep monitoring your partner making them look like a culprit they will definitely react just to protect themselves.
Treat them like your partner and
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15  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Questions Ladies Should Avoid Asking Guys In Relationships on: 21-09-2013 01:07 PM
Hey Ladies, I know you all like dissecting what's going on with your guy and honestlythat is cool but what isn't cool is when you start asking all or any of the 4 questions below.
By the way, have you ever realized how angry a man can get when you ask too many questions at a time? When it comes to relationships, most ladies want to know everything that a man is thinking.
But here is the truth and from a man's perspective, there are 4 questions I think women should really avoid asking their men while in a relationship because the answers you get are basically those aimed at pleasing you but not the whole TRUTH.
Some ladies become obsessed with finding out everything about their man’s past.
They need to know if they measure up to ex-girlfriends or wives, if he’s as happy with them as he was before and if he’s really over a past heartbreak.
You might be especially concerned about what went wrong with your guy’s previous relationships.
Remember, though, he might have been a very different man then, and he probably learned from his mistakes.
Try not to hold his past wrongs against him because chances are he doesn't want to be reminded of them.
He doesn't want you to see him in a bad light. Let him be the person he is now. Let him feel good about how he is with you, and not dragged through memories of what he did (or didn't do) with other partners. Of course it’s important to communicate, but too much probing shows a lack of trust and confidence in your relationship.
Most men have learned that the answer to this question is always NO.
Always. No exceptions. Women and weight have too close of a bond and women often define themselves and their worth by the scale.
Therefore, men are prepared and ready to say, “No, you look beautiful!” no matter what. If a woman really cares about looking fat, she should look in the mirror and decide for herself.
If she feels great, then no need to ask for affirmation.
But the attention-seeking woman might be desperate for compliments and turn to her man for her fix. It’s most important to be healthy, no matter what the scale says... Ladies!
This comes down to self-esteem (and therefore attention) and confidence in your relationship.
A man who doesn't look at anyone or feel anything for other women is either very old, very tired, or just plain lying. Looking at and responding to others doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't find you desirable or is comparing you. Of course too much gawking or staring is inappropriate, are you going to tell me you've never glanced at an attractive guy?
We are all humans. If he takes it to the next level and starts to flirt, however, he’s definitely not fully committed to you and its time to reevaluate your relationship.
This question usually comes up in a moment of silence, and often times while in bed.
Some women want to make sure that a man is thinking only of them in bed, but this is a very complicated question for a guy. Make sure you can tolerate hearing about what’s going on in your man’s mind, and remember not to assume he doesn't care about you. You might be amazed when he answers “oh, just the football game yesterday.” Men’s minds can wonder to multiple subjects, while women tend to concentrate on the activity at hand and analyze every detail.

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16  Forum / FunnyHub (Jokes + Comedy) / Lmao God Punish Asuu (photo) on: 21-09-2013 11:37 AM
Na waooo asuu na una cause this oooo.... Lmaaooo

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17  Forum / Relationships & Romance / SAY NO TO GAY-ISM AND LESBIAN-ISM!!! on: 21-09-2013 10:47 AM
(Hmmmm..... If God didn't punish this generation he will have to make an appeal to the city of Sodomy and Gomorra.
Goddidn't create Ada and Eve, God created Adam and eve because now a days woman claim they don't needs man which is a wrong claim they form lesbians all over American and the World
....... Can u spell woMAN...without the word MAN?
feMALE without the word MALE?
sHE without the pronoun HE
Or spell MRs without MR
or spell A mADAM without ADAM.
All the problem of woman men they there
.. MANicure , MENtal breakdown
, MENtal stress,MENopause
, MENstrual pain,GUYnacholog all these problem faced by woman all spelled with the word MEN and they are claiming dey don't need us men .
Now men also messing up and provoke!!!
God didn't create Adam and Steve, God created Adam and Eve..... Say No To Homos¤xual

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18  Forum / Relationships & Romance / A Muslim Woman Can Propose To A Muslim Man on: 21-09-2013 10:42 AM
A Muslim woman is allowed to approach a man with a marriage proposal,if she comes to know of a man who has good character, Deen and would be a good husband, she can approach him in an honorable way with a marriage proposal.
This may be seen as improper or brazen in some cultures. But that is a cultural attitude, not an Islamic one. We live in a society where we are of the mindset that it's the man who should always make the proposal for marriage.
Our society set rule that it's the man who has to propose and make women feel guilty or ashamed as if they would be doing something so wrong and unacceptable by asking for a man's hand in marriage.
So many women wait and wait on the man to propose, and sometimes months and even years go by, and if a man doesn't propose, the woman herself become a question mark.
In some cases when a daughter dare to suggest a suitable man to her parents which considered a crime, and also considered rude and offensive and automatically deemed to mean that she is involved in an illicit relationship with him. All these culturally-driv en notions and customs are against to the teachings of Islam. There is nothing in Quran or Sunnah that would suggest that it is prohibited for a woman to initiate a marriage proposal.
According to Islam , there is no problem for a Muslim woman to propose to a Muslim man. Islam gives a Muslim woman the right and honour to make such a proposal without feeling guilty or ashamed.
Our best role model is the Prophet Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him) and in this veiw we can find a most beautiful example. When a proposal sent from Ummul-Mumineen Hazrat Khadija-tul-Kub ra (Razi Allah Anha) to Prophet Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him), through her friend"Nafisah". Nafisah delivered the proposal to our Holy Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him).
And He accepted this proposal. Obviously Allah would

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19  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Igbo Traditional Marriage, Is It Only For The Rich? on: 21-09-2013 10:32 AM
‘Nna, I want my Igba Nkwu to be something to write about’, Ijeoma said to me with so much excitement.‘Sure, why not? The last time I checked, you made me the sacrificial lamb for a ‘ritualistic marriage ceremony’.
Does a man need to rob a bank or be super-duper rich to marry an Igbo girl?’
Adewale cuts in mockingly with his strong ‘britico’ accent. ‘Is it my fault that I am an Igbo girl….eh…Adewale? Why must our own wedding be an issue?’ she snaps back in an angry tone. ‘Enough, both of you’,
I quickly chipped in to douse the all too frequent war of words that was about to erupt between the two love birds over the customary Igbo traditional marriage ceremony – popularly referred to as ‘Igba Nkwu Nwanyi’.
It means “The Wine Carrying of a Woman” and for many decades has been generally accepted as the Igbo word for traditional marriage.
So what really does an Igbo traditional marriage entail?
Introduction – Ikwu Aka (Knocking)
Marriage in Igbo-land is not just an affair between the future husband and wife but also involves the parents, the extended family and villages. When you’re planning for the introductory part of your proposed union, you must bear in mind that there are two stages in this process.
Depending on the Igbo community involved, the intending groom will be required to make two visits to the bride to be’s family.
First, the intending groom, accompanied by his father or any elder relative or close family friend will visit the father of the bride to be formerly introduced and state their intention.
They will then agree on a latter time to meet with other members of the bride to be’s family.
No gift is required for this initial visit. For the return visit, the intending groom’s family (not limited to the parents) will meet with the bride to be’s family and restate their intention.
At this stage, it is expected that the bride to be’s family will have had ample time to investigate the groom to be’s family and must have reached a conclusion on the proposal.
The pre-requisites for this visit may vary from village to village, but, basically some of the key items offered as gift to the host family include Kolanuts,
Wines (alcoholic/non-alcoholic) and wrappers (Nigerian/Holland prints). Money (cash gift) is usually not offered at this point in order not to be misrepresented.
Traditional Marriage – Igba Nwku (Engagement) At this stage, a date has been agreed for the ‘Igba Nkwu’ to hold at the paternal home of the bride to be.
The intending groom would have been handed a list of items to present at the engagement.
The list usually is communicated after the introduction and is an obligatory part of completing the Igba Nkwu, which could either be a close family event or a big event including the whole “village”.
The items on the lists are usually symbolic and cover different sections of the ceremony.
Typical Igbo Traditional List for the Groom
SECTION A : UMUADA (ALL KINDRED DAUGHTERS) Wrappers and Blouses– (George/Hollandis/Nigerian Wax)
Jewelry – (Gold plated earings, necklaces)
Head ties and Shoes (Different types and colours)
Hand bags and wrist watches (Different types and colours)
Toiletries (Body creams, bathing soaps, washing detergents, etc.)
Beverages and food items Cash gift (lump sum) –Ogwe ego Drinks (Malt & Minerals)
SECTION B: NMANYA UKWU (BIG WINE) – KINSMEN (UMUNNA) The items in this category will be shared amongst the heads of the extended family of the bride to be.
Bottles of Seaman’s Schnapps (millennium brand) Kolanuts Gallons of Palmwine Cartons of Beer, Malt and Mineral drinks
Heads of Tobacco with potash Rolls of cigarettes , 1 goat, Cash gift (Lump sum) – Ego Umu’Nna OTHER CASH GIFTS THAT MAY BE DEMANDED DURING THE COURSE OF THE CEREMONY
“Ego nfotu ite” (cash to bring down symbolic cooking pot) – ₦ 1,000
“Ncha kishi udu” (Toasting of wine) – ₦ 1,000
“Ego Ogo cherem” (money for the inlaws) – ₦ 50,000
“Ego maternity” (money for future maternity) – ₦ 1,000
“Ego Onye Eze” (money for village chief) – ₦ 1,500
“Ogwe Ego” (lump sum) – ₦ 5,000
30 tubers of Yam
2 bags of Rice
2 bags of Salt
2 cartons of Star Beer
2 cartons of Guinness Stout
2 cartons of Maltina
6 crates of Minerals
3 bottles of Seaman’s Schnapps (millennium brand)
30 bulbs of onions
1 gallon of red Palm oil (10 -25 litres)
1 gallon of Groundnut oil (25 litres)
A basin of Okporoko (Stockfish)
2 pieces of Goat leg (Ukwu Anu ewu)
25 loaves of Bread
1 carton of Tin Tomatoes
1 carton of Tin Milk
1 carton of Tablet soap
20 Pieces of Morning Rose powder
1 gallon of Kerosene
20 heads of Tobacco
10 packets of cigarettes
5 pieces of George/Hollandis/Nigerian Wax
3 pieces of Umbrella
1 Big Box (Apati)
2 Big Basins
2 pieces of Igbo Blouse
2 pieces of Headties Gold necklaces and Wrist watches (minimum of 2 pieces)
1 piece of Lantern/Lamp
“Ikpo Onu Aku Nwayi” (Bride price) – Negotiable Usually the UMUADA and UMUNNA’s are quite a number in each clan and a minimum of three pieces/cartons per item above will be demanded before the bride to be is let out of her father’s house on the engagement day.
More often than not, their demands are non-negotiable but can be influenced by the bride to be’s family.
The items required in the general section vary from village to village and can be negotiated with bride to be’s family.
In recent times, the intending bride’s father waives most of the requirements that ordinarily would be meant for him and his immediate family and request the intending groom to provide only the other items required in the first two sections.
Dress and Grooming At traditional marriage wedding ceremonies,

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20  Forum / Family / Reason why some women are only treated as a wife on: 21-09-2013 10:27 AM
The fact remains that how many wife today are friends,companion,mate,lover etc,the answer is majority of women today are just wife's, which means they are just"a woman joined to a man in marriage"and so are treated as such.
Most women just go into marriage this days as a result of peer pressure and what the society will think about them if they see them as a single lady, so they just look out for a guy who is ready to say
"I want to marry you"this becomes all they look out for, some will even say"I can't date a guy who is not ready to marry me"since marriage is all they want they don't feel its necessary to establish a connection with the guy,
his marriage proposal becomes the connection they need to go into marriage with him and when they get married,
they are treated like mere wife's because there was no connection that would have warrant the man to treat them like a friend,lover,ma te etc..
At no point did they become his friend, just because you both talk,gist and laugh together doesn't make him your friend,the moment these women do this with a man they automatically believe they are now friends and so have a concrete reason to say ''yes'' to his marriage proposal and
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