I tink dis BBA is another means the devil is trying to promote immorality with d luv for moni. No moral lessons to be learnt if nt the love of Money. How on earth will a girl in her rit senses  peep a guy while bathing?  Pple lets call a spade a spade.She deserves more dan dat slap, not only for peeping, for her very harse tone n rude  reaction towards d gay. She walked up to the guy n wanted to be a man...If she wer to be my sister, i tink she will be given more slaps nt just the guy alone.

GOOD PIECE ,TNX 4 UR REASONABLE PIECE

FUNNY YOU TREASURE

MARRIAGE WAS, IS AND REMAINS A GIFT FROM GOD TO MAN .....IS NT D HAND WORKS OF SOME gods........MOST HUMANS VE A PROBLEM WEN IT COMES TO THIS ISSUE..........GOD MADE EVERYTIN PERFECT.......WE HUMANS R RESPONSIBLE FOR THE IMPERFECTIONS WE FACE TODAY......

IMMORALITY AND CIVILIZATION HAS MADE US NOT TO HAVE VALUE OVER THINGS THAT SHOULD BE HIGHLY VALUED........NOT ALL MARRIAGE SHOULD BE TAKEN TO THE  ALTER ESPECIALLY THOSE BUILT ON THE WRONG FOUNDATION..... AND IT IS JOINING TWO  AS ON IN A HOLY MATRIMONY.... 

ODA POINTS ARE COVERED FROM THE ABOVE .....

1. Vows are just vows and nothing more. Look at it like a promise i have made many promises in my life and i have broken some. When i made those promises i didn't know i was going to break them but i broke it anyway because it no longer became convenient for me to keep such a promise. Promises with marriage are very tricky because they involve promises made between two individuals. And as soon as one feels like the other is not holding up his/her end of the bargain it makes it all the more easier and justifiable to end the vow..

YOUR NO.1 POINT MARRIAGE VOWS ARE NOT JUST VOWS MADE BETWEEN TWO....BUT VOWS MADE B4 GOD AND MEN IN THE ALTER, N ARE AS SUCH BIDING ....IS MORE LIKE A BLOOD OATH.


YOUR NO.2 POINT....2. Well unless God speaks to you in a vision and says "that is the woman/man i want you to marry" then nobody including the partners should try to split up the couple because common sense will tell you not to mess with God's commandment. However the reality is we see someone we like we date them then we marry with little consultation for God. Even when we pray about it, can you say 100% that you are doing it with an open mind? unlikely. When you meet guy or girl after a while you already know if this is the kind of person you want to spend your life with any prayer done after that is more like "please God let this man or woman be good for me" and less like "Is this person the one for me"

THERE ARE GOD'S WILL 4 OUR LIVES, WEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE MAYB 4 CHRISTAINS AND OUR CHOICES MAKES HIM GIVE US A PERMISSIVE WILL WHICH MAY VE CONSEQUENCES.
MARRIAGE SHOULD B IN ACCORDANCE WITH D WILL OF GOD 4 OUR LIVES....SOME TIMES WE IGNORE GOD'S WILL FOR LIVES N GO AFTER WAT WE WANT.......IN DIS CASE HE PERMITS US.....NOT WAT HE WANTED 4 US, BUT OUR INSISTENCE  ON IT LEAVES HIN WITH  A PERMISSIVE WILL 4 US......WHICH WEN D CONQUENCES COMES U SHOULD BE READY TO BEAR IT....WHICH IS D REASON Y D VOWS WAS MADE B4 HIM ... FOR BETTER OR WORSE..........GOD REALLY REALLY DOSE SPEAKS TO US WEN WE ARE FARVEVT........OUR CHOICES AS HUMAN SOMTYMS DESTROYS US.....


3. You don't even need to divorce to break your vows. Love is an emotion that one can't really control if you end up loving someone else or not loving the person you are with anymore is it better to suffer and smile in the relationship? I know ppl will say you should try harder but true love isn't something you should have to TRY for. As soon as love is dead whether divorce or no divorce the vow is broken already so might as well just divorce.


YOUR NO 3 POINT...LOVE ALONE DOES NOT KIP A RELATIONSHIP..MARRIAGE HAS A LOT OF UPS AND DOWN AND SO ONE NIDS A LOT OF  GOD'S GRACE AND UNDERSTANDING THAT WILL HELP  IN HANDLING DIFFICULT MOMENTS....MARRIED COUPLES DO NOT ALWAYS LOVE EACH ODA.....DAT VOW IS BIDING TILL DEATH............ANY DIVORCEE WHOSE PARTNER IS STILL ALIVE N HE/SHE REMARRIES IS DOIN NOTING BUT ADULTRY......DAT IS Y IT IS D MOST DELICATE DECISION DAT ONE HAS TO BE VERY KIAFUL OF AND ASK 4 GOD'S HELP B4 GOIN INTO IT.....MARRIAGE SHOULD BE BUILT IN THE RIT FOUNDATION.




4. well it depends on how you define marriage. If you define marriage as simply a list of commitments then you can make such a claim but it isn't. Marriage is not a business transaction it is not a contract it is merely a commitment that two people enter into willingly. As soon as one person is no longer a willing participant then bone d marriage.


YOUR NO. 4 POINT....MARRIAGE IS AN INSTITUTION ORDAINED BY GOD HIMSELF.........IT DOES ONLY AFFECT THE PHYSICAL FEATURES BUT D BODY SOUL N MIND OF TWO PPLE WHO IN GOD'S NAME AGREED TO BE ONE.......IS NOT A MATTER OF WILL......U CAN DO DAT IN A RELATIONSHIP ......NT AFTER WEDIN......IN MALACHI 2:14 WE SEE THAT MARRIAGE IS A HOLY COVENANT BEFORE GOD. IN THE JEWISH CUSTOM, GOD'S PEOPLE SIGNED A WRITTEN AGREEMENT AT THE TIME OF THE MARRIAGE TO SEAL THE COVENANT EVEN TILL DATE. THE MARRIAGE CEREMONY, THEREFORE, IS MEANT TO BE A PUBLIC DEMONSTRATION OF A COUPLE'S COMMITMENT TO A COVENANT RELATIONSHIP. IT'S NOT THE "CEREMONY" THAT'S IMPORTANT IN A MARRIAGE, IT'S THE COUPLE'S COVENANT COMMITMENT BEFORE GOD AND MEN. ....IS NOT A WORK OUT AFFAIR


YOUR ODA POINT ARE COVERED FROM THE ABOVE RESPONSE........

IT'S SHOCKING NOWADAYS THE RATE AT WHICH MARRIED COUPLES GET DIVORCED.
AND MY QUESTIONS ARE:
1.WHAT DOES THOSE SPOKEN VOWS STANDS FOR?
2. IS IT RIGHT FOR THE COURTS TO RESOLVE WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER?
3. THE VOWS THAT WAS MADE BEFORE GOD AND MEN ON THAT FATEFUL DAY, WHY DO COUPLES THINK IS BROKEN AFTER DIVORCE?
4. FOR BETTER OR WORSE, IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH, FOR RICHER FOR POORER TILL DEATH DO US PATH.....DO COUPLES REALLY UNDERSTAND THAT IS ONLY DEATH  THAT CAN PART A MARRIAGE?
5. IS THE WORSE OMITTED FROM THE VOWS BEFORE CONSIDERING DIVORCE?

WITH THESE AND MANY MORE QUESTIONS TO BE ASKED I WONDER WHAT MARRIAGE (WEDDING PRECISELY) IS ALL ABOUT.

FEEL FREE TO CONTRIBUTE..............

Hello dear, i love ur spirit; you're quit positive....the truth is that... your God  given man can be all of that for u....and that should be ur prayer....IN AS MUCH AS DER'S NO PERFECT MARRIAGE, WITH GOD ALL TINS ARE POSSIBLE.....PLAY YOUR PART IN DOING GOD'S WILL FOR UR LIFE...HE WILL SURELY GRANT YOUR HEART DESIRES........walk by faith, nt by sight

MY KINDLED ADVICE IS FOR U NOT TO RESIGN. YES IS A PAINFUL AND DIFFICULT EXPERIENCE WITH YOUR BOSS, BUT I AM SURE U WILL SEE THE BENEFIT OF ENDURING WITH A DIFFICULT BOSS. IS A VERY SMALL WORLD, AND U NEVA CAN TELL WHERE NEXT THE WIND WILL BE BLOWING....BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY IS THAT U VE WHAT IT TAKES TO HANDLE MOST OVERBEARING SITUATION, WITH THAT U CAN WORK WITH ANY KIND OF INDIVIDUAL. PERSEVERANCE IS PAINFUL BUT PAYS A LOT.ON THE HAND, IF U VE REALLY MADE UP UR MIND ON QUIETING, THEN WHILE STILL THERE ,LOOK FOR ANOTHER ALTERNATIVE (JOB ELSE WHERE) WITH GOD HELPING U ,  IF EVERY TIN WORKS OUT FYN , THEN U CAN QUIET.BUT OTHER WISE, FOUR YRS U R DER I AM SURE U R STRONGER......HOLD ON.....MAYBE JUST MAYBE U R STEPPING IN FOR A SURPRISE.PRAY FOR HIM....

 I PERSONALLY DO NOT KNOW WHY SO MANY GO INTO RELATIONSHIPS.RELATIONSHIP TO MY OWN OPINION IS MEANT FOR 2 MATURED AND PREPARED MINDS N SHOULD NOT BE A LONG TERM DEAL.
THE WAY WE START UP A TIN MATTERS SO MUCH, THE 1ST STEP WE TAKE IN AN ACTION WILL DETERMINE HW THE ACTION WILL BE...PRESUMABLY, UR FRIEND STARTED BY DOING THOSE THINGS HE IS DEMANDING NOW  IN XPECTATION AND LATTER STOPPED WEN IS NOT FORTH COMING....THEY CALLED IT A RELATIONSHIP AND NOT MARRIAGE, AND IT SHOULD STOP AT A RELATIONSHIP LEVEL........U AIN'T MARRIED TO HIM, YET U SPEND FIVE DAYS IN HIS HOUSE, HAVE SEX WITH HIM, DO ALL WAT IS MEANT FOR MARRIED PLLE AND U XPECT HIM TO GET SERIOUS WITH U.......THERE ARE SO HEART BREAKS TODAY BCOS SAME THING HAPPENS EVERY DAY YET PPLE DON,T LEARN,YOU ARE NOT MARRIED TO A GUY YET U SOLD UR BODY TO HIM, NOT MARRIED TO HIM,  YET YOU U GAVE HIM THE RIT OF A HUSBAND, NT MARRIED TO HIM, YET YOU COULD LEAVE UR HOUSE AND SPEND DAYS WITH HIM..IS JUST SO UNFORTUNATE THAT MOST LADIES DO NOT VALUE WAT GOD HAS GIVEN TO DEM AND AS A RESULT WEN THEY FINALLY GET MARRIED THEY EITHER  BCOME 4TH, 5TH.........HANDS TO THEIR HUSBAND.I WONDER HOW IT FEELS WEN U SEE SOMEONE U HAD SEX WITH B4 SITTING WITH UR HUSBAND..
ONLY UNREASONABLE GUYS WILL WALK AWAY WEN U SAY NO TO SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP....PRESERVE URSELF AND SAY NO TO SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP AND SEE HOW THE GUY VALUES U........THE STORY OF HE IS GOING TO GET  IT OUTSIDE IF U SAY NO..... SIMPLY MEANS HE IS NOT FOR REAL AND HE NEVA CAME FOR LOVE........U STARTED THE WIFE DUTIES IN THE 1ST PLACE, THEREBY GIVING  HIM RIT TO VE DAT DOMINION OVER U......PLACE URSELF AND ACT LIKE A GIRL NT MARRIED YET AND SEE HOW A GUY VALUES  U AND SPEED UP HIS EFFORT OF MAKING U WIFE........
IF U WER IN UR HOUSE HE WOULD NT BE DEMANDING U TO COOK HIS MEAL AND IRON HIS CLOTHES...............LADIES WISE UP AND PRESERVE THAT BODY FOR THE GOD GIVEN RIT PERSON.....EVERY LADY HAS ITS OWN MAN.........  

DESIST FROM ANY SUGARY FOOD............TAKE A  VERY LITTLE SALT IN HIS FUD................ 

NOT TRUE .............COS MY MUM IS FROM  IGBOTHE ONLY CHILD AND ONLY  DAUGHTER OF HER PARENTS BUT SHE MARRIED AN IKWERRIAN 

I THINK I'VE WATCHED THIS MOVIE...VAN VICKER AND STEPHINE OKEREKE......LOL

IS SO SURPRISING THAT WHEN EVER HIV/AIDS IS BEING MENTIONED, THE HEAD LINE BECOMES SEX.SEX IS NOT THE ONLY WAY OF CONTACTING THIS VIRUS FOR GOD'S SAKE.HIGH PERCENTAGE OF HIV/AID IS BEING CONTACTED FROM THOSE THINGS PPLE IGNORE:BARBING SALOON, PEDICURES, RAZORS, SHAVING STICKS, NAIL CUTTERS, NEEDLES  ETC..........DO YOU THINK OF HOW MANY PPLE THAT USES SAME CLIPPER WITH YOU WHILE BARBING? HOW PPLE USED SAME NAIL CUTER WHILE PEDICURING......EVEN IN PLACES U EAT VICTIMS OF VIRUS DURING COOKING  MAY HAVE A CUT AND D BLOOD  MIXED WITH THE FOOD.....LIKE THEY SAID" IS NOT WRITTEN ON ANY ONES FOREHEAD" BE CAREFUL AND CONSCIOUS OF THINGS YOU SHARE WITH SOME OTHER PERSONS.......IS NOT JUST SEX ALONE

KATE ADDED AS AT PRESENT COMPARED TO WHEN  SHE HAS NOT GIVING BIRTH.....OMOSEXY LIKE YOU SAID ..........HER TOMMY IS A GUD EXAMPLE AND SHE USED TO  BE"VERY SLIM" BEFORE SHE MARRIED

KATE ADDED AS AT PRESENT COMPARED TO WHEN HAS NOT GIVING BIRTH.....OMOSEXY LIKE YOU SAID ..........HER TOMMY IS A GUD EXAMPLE AND SHE USED TO "VERY SLIM" BEFORE SHE MARRIED

FAT GIRLS RUNS OUT OF SHAPE AFTER 1ST BIRTH 98% OF THEM IN MOST CASES, AVERAGE BECOMES FAT AFTER 1ST BIRTH, AND SLIM BECOMES AVERAGE AFTER IST BIRTH AND STILL IN SHAPE ...........SLIM IS CHARMING AND CAPTIVATING(SLIM I MEAN NOT SKINNY)

BRILLIANT

IN ONE WORD "YES" COS ABSOLUTE SUBMISSION ATTRACTS ABSOLUTE LOVE(THAT'S  B/W HUSBAND N WIFE )