Some women want to belive the best in the men they r with. Afterall, not doing that is admitting that they chose wrongly.
Others (like me), realises that there is a thin line btw wishful thinking(negative and positive) and intuition, they both originate from the same place within u.
One thing u can always rely on is fact. So when it comes to issues u strongly about, n r emotionally attached to, sticking with the facts will keep u objective. Funny though how most of my life decisions (career, academic etc) I made based on intuition are spot-on.
cool..in essence you do not really rely on ur instinct even when you have a bad feeling that it isnt right huh...