Listen Stella Damasus , dont even deceive your self for a second .Just because Doris had problems with the husband is not enough for you to get involve with the husband .It is morally and streetly (i mean streetly not strictly) wrong by culture. You know full well that if u have not gotten involve with that man there is all possibility that both of them could have reconcile because of their son .But because you have come to involve yourself the man may now be confuse and not know exactly what to do regardless of the fact that he would be boasting that he is a man and he can handle himself. From all your statement above you were trying to play logic saying you have gone to the dictionary and you know the meaning of the word snatch or steal but dont think you talking to dafts here we are men and we know its all about stealing a mans mind and feelings thru physical contacts and mind emotional control.Yes the man you dealing with may be weak but you are most guilty for not permitting him time to heal and go back to his wife .Its obvious  you are desperate to go back into matrimony and it does not matter who it is , be it married or single man . Of course you could not have gotten a single man .You even said it and have always known that from ur statement when u said you choose to get married at age 21 because u know that if it gets too late you may find it difficult to get married . And because u still have this mentality in your mind you have knew time was going and if you dont get that man it may be difficult later on as u supposed .So you saw a fall guy who is innocently gullible and you jump into it. I know and every reasonable person here know that it could have been any man provided its a man to fulfil that matrimony and remove that fear for you . This is why you are weakly saying you owe stella no apologies . Yes i expect that from you . But it is a shame . Again you claimed u did not physically go into heir house to snatch the man but remember there was a home already established and even though they were living separately for the mean time are u the one that was sent to be a judge of their situation ?The fact that Doris or anyone has not come to ak you to release their husband does not mean that she is daft or foolish , what she is simply saying is that The evil that men do lives after then
.And why all this long disturbed jist from you when Doris have not confront you .You talk of blogs and googland so on . then relax and enjoy your loot. We know that if u aint disturbed you wont be here making all this talks . And if u feel u are justified then keep quiet and enjoy the loot and let the Innocent Doris  Simon breath.

....Why are you so naive and unrefined?

LEAVE THE POOR GIRL ALONE AND HER LOVER!!! AFTER ALL 16YRS AND 20YRS NOT TOO BAD!! LEAVE THEM JARE

The woman must be devil sent , if not why cant she forgive and forget whatever the man might have  done, your first love at that , i feel sad hearing these from people we hold at a very high esteem, too bad i like to say.

shameless woman!! wetin the gentle man do for you wey come warrant divorce...