She's not right anything abeg. Our problem in naija is that we are most times not open to our partners otherwise what is the biggy having opposite sex as mere friend? Are you saying one should cut off school mates because of marriage? I say NO. The best is to make sure you introduce the person to your spouse and any communication must be in the open and not dirty. There should however be a limit to visitation, once in a long while which must be with the consent of both parties spouses won't be a bad idea. So if Jonathan or patient is your friend you will cut off from him/her because you are married? Abeggiiiii. Sincerity is our problem in marriage, not friends. We should learn to be truthful, honest and truly love our spouse.
obviously you are a woman....all of your so called male friends are interested in having sex with you,they are just waiting for the right opportunity that is why they playing around you..so I say hell no..no woman or man in a committed relationship or marriage should keep friends of the opposite sex..if you are really interested in sustaining that relationship..if you have this friendships before you got into this new relationship ,as soon as it becomes serious keep a distant from them....My experience
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