am in love .......

na wa for me shey, nai make there's only me n leaving the bf n gf wont erase the fact that they are lovers, one has to accept so realities as they are. who knws if the pregnancy was meant to bring their underground relationship to ur notice?

Be compassionate and understanding. Women like men who are compassionate and understanding and someone who always genuinely cares. A woman wants to be able to say in her mind, "Oh what a nice guy." A woman wants a man to tell her often how important she is to him and to SHOW her that in his actions! Flowers, a gift, a card, FOR NO REASON, or even just a phone call or leaving a cute message on her voice mail while she is at work!!! All a little extra touch that tell her she matters.


Be polite and complimentary. Women like to hear "please", "i am sorry", "i promise" and "thank you." Also, ask her how her day is going. Tell her she is gorgeous, beautiful, pretty, and that she has lovely eyes. Just telling her she is wonderful often helps. Thank her for everything she does for you. In addition, recognize that there is more to her than the physical aspect.


Have respect for her thoughts and opinions. Recognize her intelligence and strong points. Even if you don't agree with her, find good points from both perspective's. It's paramount to her knowing she is seen as a total person. Never cut her down, even if you are kidding. Find something unique about her that no one has ever told her about.


Be a good communicator. Listen to her, hear her out, give eye contact to let her know you are giving full attention. Be interested in her. However, you also need to open up and tell her your thoughts, opinions, and problems, but wait until she is done telling you her thoughts. Do not interrupt. Help give ideas about possible solutions to problems, but praise her if she finds something other than what you suggest.


Brag about her to your friends and to hers. This is especially important as relationships grow. She'll like knowing she is appreciated. Look the woman straight in the eye when giving compliments.


Remember special events like birthday, anniversary, Valentines Day, etc. (NOTE: This day is just another day. Don't just give her things just because of this one day of the year; appreciate her and show her how much you care every day.)


Don't leave segxwality completely up to the woman if you're in a relationship together. If you feel like the time is right, gently let her know how you feel. And when a women says she wants to spend quality time with you, don't assume she is thinking about the bed room! Usually, she means spending time together


Tell her she is beautiful. Not hot. "Pretty" and "hot" have their place, but "beautiful" goes right to the heart. Sometimes she'll look hot or sexy, so tell her. Don't tell her too often that she is cute, she is after all a woman and not a child. Pay attention and know what part of her ego needs reinforcing.


Avoid being jealous of male friends, co-workers, and exes without good reason, because she talks to them about you all the time. They know she's taken. So note, women are delicate, even the toughest of women long for romance. Think with your own mind and let your true affections show. Nothing speaks more than written words. If you are in a good relationship she will do the same in return. But be Men, and step into your role! Women want to feel wanted that you enjoy their company


Important Thing You Must Know
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Every relationship is going to come up against some obstacles. They'll either break it up, or make it stronger. If it ends, it wasn't meant to be. If you push through, the relationship will be better than ever.

Say bye bye to bad relationship if you can keep to this commitment

I'd do the same thing you would do....

Don't rush, take it slow, exercise restraint, proceed with caution. I'm under the impression that u are one of those people who assume that since they are 'harmless,' no one will want to harm them. A good natured person, passionate and tender. Well, if i'm on track, U myt want to reconsider Ur approach to relationships. Don't dive head first; go in one step at a time; only deeper when U can say without bias that its the right thing to do. Good luck

my boyfriend called me some nights ago telling me he wants a breakup