Liar! You better shut you lying mouth up and appreciate what God has doe for you. There was nothing like a personal choice. You were not getting pregnant all the while until God answered your prayers through IVF.
Like she said God time is the best, what ever it is that delayed her God has answered her in God's own time.. You sound like the kind of people that pressurises their Inlaw if they are not getting pregnant on time.. Either through IVF or not God has answered her in his way and in God's own time.. thank God for her...