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there is this girl in my neighborhood which i love so much,but she doesn't love me,each time i set my eyes on her my heart beats faster than normal.pls wat would i do to win her love

there is this girl i dated for five good years without knowing her parents,but when i finally made up my mind to marry her,her parent refused jst bcos i'm a military man.naija pls i need ur advice,what should i do to marry this girl im seriously in love with her and i dont want to lose her