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61  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Women's Submission Vs Men's Love on: 18-03-2011 03:02 PM
I'm not surprised... If I wasn't addressing you over the internet you would beat me up to prove how much of a 'man' you are and how much respect you need to be given because you are a man right, ok. I'll take your excuse although I know you can not make a argument because there is none to be made... you are still diverting.  
62  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Women's Submission Vs Men's Love on: 18-03-2011 02:43 PM
Quote from: trolling on 18-03-2011 01:42 PM
Singing James Brown.....it's a MAN's world. if some of you women dont see it that way, then you've been deluded.
As a matter of the fact the powers-that-be that rule this evil world are called the Bilderbergers,it comprises of 120 men
who run this present evil world,women are not allowed in their "secret" society,it aint secret anymore because some people know about their evil meetings and activities.So why are some of you women still in denial.
@ Trolling
actually you quoted the world as evil not the Bilderbergers. You can't school me, you don't apply common sense and logic to things you write... and thats not insulting you, its stating the obvious. When I said women can conceive... I didn't mean by artificial means. And you completely ignored my points addressing what you wrote and commented on the irrelevant things, very typical. I believe the reason why you ignore my points is because you have no argument, theres nothing to say, to put it the way you put it... I 'school' you.

I'm sure you understand that this is a public forum. If you do not want to be addressed or quoted, do not comment.
63  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Women's Submission Vs Men's Love on: 18-03-2011 02:13 PM
@ Trolling, its a shame if you think the Bilderbergers are a thing to be proud about but I can assure you 'behind' those men are women... thats also not a thing to be proud about. The queens a woman.  When I say men are not more important than women it not to argue that women are more important than men.  It take two to tangle. You can not be more important than what you need. For humans to continue to exist women have to give birth. Without woman there is no man likewise without man no woman. Until men can give birth and nurse their children and have all the characters that women have naturally, they can not be more important than women.

P.S...I am not bring this up as a point because I can not prove it but I have heard that women can conceive without men... no not 'virgin mary' but it still wouldn't mean women are more important than men.
64  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: i'm scared of my girlfriend jilting me, what should i do on: 18-03-2011 01:34 PM
You are scared of your girlfriend jilting you so you seek advice from complete strangers who know nothing about your situation. Talk to her.
65  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: LADIES PLEASE BE HONEST on: 18-03-2011 01:28 PM
Yes, but he would have to be a very mature young man.
66  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: in Love with a drug addict. CAN U? on: 18-03-2011 01:25 PM
its hard to have all those attributes you mentioned and be addicted to drugs. That usually not how addiction works, especially addiction to cocaine.
67  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Women's Submission Vs Men's Love on: 18-03-2011 01:22 PM
wow thats new, if you didn't upload a picture I would have though you made a mistake with your gender. I don't know why SOME men, and women unfortunately, like to act dumb, ignore things or just play with words. You can not be under total submission  and have a 50/50 relationship. In the same way you can not argue that you are the same with/have the same statue with/ just as important as your husband but still be in under total submission. One has to be lesser than in some ways, give up power, control... to be under submission. If you submit to you husband you can not be equal to you husband.  If he says do something thats exactly what you do because you are in submission, you don't negotiate or give  options, thats taking control and if he agrees with your terms, he has submitted to you.

Some women understand what it means to submit  and they play that role (live like mindless people), some women disagree(myself) and the others are very confused, like to act 'I'm so holy, I submit to my husband. I am a virtuous woman.' while they are not under submission atleast not total submission but they go around preaching submission.

I have disagreed with Trolling a few times and its not because I disagree with his interpretation of the bible, because he is correct the bible make it clear that men are should rule women and women should submit to men, its because I think the bible is a story book, I don't believe in it. I don't know in how many more ways the bible can say that women are tools. Even when you point it out its ' oh, thats not what the bible means'. The other argument is to bring up the few exceptions where women actually matter in the bible, well thats not new news, its well known that the bible is bi-polar, does that mean we should ignore the other things it says. Anyway moving long from the bible because its a touchy one and I'm not trying to get into that but it had to be said... Theres not really many cases of submission which may be why (i'm not saying it is or that the main reason) christian marriages have problems. Of course the men will get complete different interpretation of the bible, because it favours them, they will fully understand submission eg Trolling, while the woman who stay in a religion that does not favour will get a different meaning of submission, again not in all cases.

Ok so I'm not a christian, what my argument?... If christian women want to submit, submit... if you can not submit completely, because many women can not (its it tough job to be mindless) stop being hypocrites, as many christains or religion generally are by the way, and get out of it and stop judging women that dont submit.
68  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: dating a smoker on: 16-03-2011 02:28 PM
For me its the smell, the person has to be really clean to be on top of that and the long term consequences, its self-destructive.
69  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Women's Submission Vs Men's Love on: 16-03-2011 02:12 PM
@ truenaija2
lol so you went for the classic "thats not what the bible means"... ok I don't know what you think it means to be a lesser vessel to me it means inferior. Also if its god, husband then wife and you know you are inferior to god, then you are inferior to you husband. stop playing with words.

"Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee." (Genesis 3:16)

"Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law. And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church." (I Corinthians 14:34-35)

"For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man. Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man." (I Corinthians 11:8-9)

"When men strive together one with another, and the wife of the one draweth near for to deliver her husband out of the hand of him that smiteth him, and putteth forth her hand, and taketh him by the secrets: then thou shalt cut off her hand, thine eye shall not pity her." (Deuteronomy 25:11-12)

"Behold, here is my daughter a maiden, and his concubine; them I will bring out now, and humble ye them, and do with them what seemeth good unto you: but unto this man do not so vile a thing. But the men would not hearken to him: so the man took his concubine, and brought her forth unto them; and they knew her, and abused her all the night until the morning: and when the day began to spring, they let her go." (Judges 19:24-25)

"Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything." (Ephesians 5:22-24)

"If she go not as thou wouldest have her, cut her off from thy flesh, and give her a bill of divorce, and let her go." (Eccles. 25: 26)
"Give me any plague, but the plague of the heart: and any wickedness, but the wickedness of a woman." (Eccles. 25:13)
"Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die." (Eccles. 25:22)
... and thats not everything


The bible has put it in so many ways that women are inferior to men, I don't read that stuff anymore you do, what don't you understand? You can not be that same as someone who rules over you.
On the issue of 50/50 if , as we have seen, the woman is inferior to the man... it can't be 50/50 then  maybe 75/25 or 90/10 even, whatever the man says after-all he rules over you.
I'm not a christian, if you dont get that already.
70  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Is There A Thin Line Between These Two?............ on: 16-03-2011 01:03 PM
you can not be stubborn and submissive... the two contradiction each other. You can’t eat your cake and have it too.
71  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Women's Submission Vs Men's Love on: 16-03-2011 12:49 PM
@  truenaija2  I think we are a little confused about what submission is. My idea of submission, in this context, is that when you submit to someone you give them power/total control over you, you accept that you are inferior to them, the person you submit to has the last say, is in control... and the rest of it. I sure we are on the same page about that, its pretty much what the bible implies by the husband is the head, he is above you as god is above him and the rest.
"like him keeping a wild dog in the house or a snake then u say sorry my kids r nott saved we have to remove the dog if he says no then u say i will get someone to remove it if he doesnt wnatit then u say i move out with my kids till the dogs r removed he will personally take it away or anything thta will endanger ur childrens future or u urself" This is not submission, you are in control. You are giving him conditions to make him do what you want and if he agrees we can say that he submitted to you. If you are in total submission to your husband according to the word of the bible if he says " the only place available for my python is in our one month old daughters room" all you need to say is "yes my lord" the same way that your husband is to say yes to god in every situation.  You know that, obey your husband it in the bible, but we like to twist words in real life situations and still act holy. Where is common sense? We like use with without understanding the the meaning and when we do its " oh that was in those  days things have changes" or "thats not what the bible means"...  we that bits and twist it to suit us, if you want to submit, submit 100%
Its the same way that we play with the idea of  freewill and submission to god. Anyone that can think and allows them self to think knows that you can not have freewill and be submitted to something.

@ Zilly  I am not disagreeing with you about what the scripture says, I just don't agree with it. No, I did not grow up abroad and I grew up a christian, went to church regularly not only on sunday; weekdays, went to vigils, concerts, church event... been in various church department, I was very active in church as a teenager even up to about two years ago, don't conclude on what you don't know.  If I get married and my husband changes and become abusive in any way, emotionally, physically... and we can not work it out or settle things after I have exhausted my option  I will not hesitate to get a divorce. I'm not going to go into you last paragraph although I disagree, how you want to live your life is your business
72  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Women's Submission Vs Men's Love on: 15-03-2011 11:49 PM
 @ Zilly save that for someone who has complained to you that they cant find a man or keep one, I don't have that problem. If a woman has no problem being submissive that her business, it should not be every womans priority.

"These instructions were without condition. Abi dem don dey remix Bible?"
"We're not talking about forced submission here"... Well maybe you are the one not following.
73  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Women's Submission Vs Men's Love on: 15-03-2011 11:22 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 15-03-2011 08:04 PM
I believe those called to submit are wives to husbands. Don't get it twisted.

A good life is a service to God. Wives should submit to their husbands as a service to God, whether the husband shows his love or not. Husbands should love their wives as a service to God whether the wives are submissive or not. At the end we will stand every person alone and God will judge us all. Who has been found faithful in his/her calling as wife or husband will be rewarded.

These instructions were without condition. Abi dem don dey remix Bible?
That right there is serious stupidity. Its funny how people will cosign anything without thinking about it because it has god in it. Thats how people get stuck in dangerous abusive, parasitic relationships thinking they serving god. Give your god some credit, if he loves you that much he wouldn't want you to be sentenced to a lifetime of dysfunctional relationship or marriage as a service to him.
74  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Women's Submission Vs Men's Love on: 15-03-2011 05:38 PM
I can submit to a men if he would submit to me otherwise no.
75  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: All WOMEN ARE THE SAME, PICK ONE. on: 11-03-2011 04:41 PM
lol this is funny... your title is All WOMEN ARE THE SAME, PICK ONE... but you back it up with the wisdom of  a man who had 700 wives and 300 concubines. Is he really your mentor, you get wisdom from him? well I'm not surprised
76  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: All WOMEN ARE THE SAME, PICK ONE. on: 11-03-2011 04:32 PM
I'm not even going dwell on the topic, it is stupid to even think it. I don't believe that you believe it, but then who knows.

"We should remember that King Solomon had a thousand plus women around him,so King Solomon is telling us from experience,mind you he was a King,but its sad to say that these same women was his downfall"

Yep the wise king Solomon, very wise indeed... wise enough to have had 700 wives and 300 concubines and of course the women were his downfall, right. First I don't know what kind of wisdom there is in having 700 wives and 300 concubines, and then the women were his downfall... well then that means he wasn't wise in the first place. Solomon was Solomons downfall. If you really want to back this up Solomon should be the last man to look to... if women are all the same why did he get married 700 times and then get 300 concubines? and he is supposed to be the wisest man, I'd be insulted if I were a man. But I have to give him credit though 700 wives and 300 concubines??? pheewww he must have been  doing something but thats IF this story is true.
77  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Nigerian Soldier Batters, Rapes 23 Years Old Girl At Graveyard on: 23-02-2011 02:38 PM
 na wah ooo so much tension on this site these days
78  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Rita Isoken Igbinedion Koko Manson Vs. Hon. Patrick Obahiagbon on: 23-02-2011 02:26 PM
At least you can understand what Rita is saying...
79  Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Exclusive Photos Of Omotola Jalada At The Grammy Awards 2011 (Page 2) on: 15-02-2011 12:41 AM
I think shes pregnant... that belle to much  Grin
80  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Prostitutes Flee Kano As Sharia Group Arrests 1,000 on: 13-02-2011 05:11 PM
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