It is really sad indeed. The issue of OSU is still practiced very much in the 21st century despite the level of Christianity in Igboland. The girl has to move on with her life because there is nothing she can do to make that man change his mind.
Now let flip the story..What if this married woman got pregnant for her EX... I don't think most of you guys would encourage the husband to have her back. WOULD YOU? That man has failed his dear wife and unborn child. Shameless man!!
Late General Ojukwu was a good friend to Bianca father.. So you can imagine the age difference between him and his wife(Bianca). I just hope this man has a genuine interest in this young lady.
You come across as a genuine nice guy with a BIG HEART which is scarce these days. It seems you really loved this girl very much and she didn't appreciate it. Yes, she might act like that she doesn't care now but who knows in some MONTHS time she would come begging because she would realise her FOOLISHNESS. Your studies is much more important. Control your emotions and don't let it control you otherwise it would affect your grades(abeg no bang your head). Have it at the back of your mind that you deserve better. CHEER UP!!!