common its Love nowwww, just do it for the passion and fire burnin and worry abt tomorrow later, abi no b something go finally kill person for this life.

Taking care of her needs? oh dear I have been a taken to the extent I have become a fool or should I say a toy.This was a girl I dated 4 a year plus before ever getting intimate and since I was her 1st, I respected that for 5 long cheating and crying back years........

Just to let you know HIDDENPEARL, I am no longer with her,left her about 7 months ago but she still willnot give up till now..... sometimes she says she wants to commit suicide and her brothers would come to me to help her.....this is serious stuff...but still wonder how she would always hurt herself for me and once I let her in again she messes up.
Now she knows I don't want to take her back, she says we should be friends....but I don't know how to be friends with someone I was so deeply in love with,I am thinking it could be a prank to get me again.....
She saying am being immature avoiding her..........girls tell me what do u think

Opinions pls

lol, funny but good thinking

pearl not evry guy cheats. most guys mostlikely do when a girl gives them the reason to

Could you ever marry or date a girl that you love so much to death even though she can't control herself from cheating on you and would always come back feeling sorry and even having the guts to tell you she messed up....all the time

hey, I guess it depends on your type of guy.. some when they know they would DEFINATELY take you for granted while some when you let them know they would WORSHIP YOU AND KEEP U AND ONLY U AS THEIR NO 1 AND GO TO THE ENDS OF THE EARTH FOR U.
So try ti know where ur guy falls in and follow ur instincts.

sorry mate, but if that is a problem for you then u need to seek help lol

Talk to her about what she likes and give it to her, but make sure is something you both would enjoy......give her as much as you can and if she is not satisfied .........mate I donno OOO.
But if your girlfriend leave u for a while maybe travel for a while and she comes back telling you to give her new techniques and she starts to phyuk like a nympho all the time but not when she just returns,Put up am eye brow and start to smell around something fishy might be going on

Omo guy I feel ur pain........u just have to be strong and have a strong heart...they are other nice girls out there..... pampering a girl depends as well....pamper a lot but don't be a fool,pamper but make he think as you love her so much u can do without her knowing in your mind that is a lie,but pamper her alot and that would keep her confused and still wanting to understand you more and if she still wants to know you more u would always intrigue her. BUT AT THE SAME TIMELADIES NEEDS TO BE PAMPERED AND LOVED AND AT THE SAME TIME BE STRONG and don't be a puppet...I dated a girl for 5 years,we were almost like husband and wifeonly without marriage lol,she messed up and it hurt me but I never let her know and I moved on.....
We all go truhardship but what differentiates us is how well we stand after being thru one...

sex before marriage..........hummmmmmmmm well if your a Virgin it's worth the wait if not and your trusts u with al his heart then it's worth it as well..... but if u'all can't wait or ur guy can't wait....be sure he truly loves you and has commited before the sex. if your a Virgin and he insists....... well I donno...follow ur instincts.YPU HAVE TO BE SURE HE TRUELY LOVE SU BEFORE LETTINGHIM HAVE YOUR VIRGINITY.
If you suspect he can't hold himself and for that might seek it outside then give him to keep him and if ur a virgin don't give him,if he goes out and see what's in the world and know say virgin hard to find HE MUST COME BACK

What I would say is love does require sex to some extent,but the fun is not in the destination........the fun is the journey........once your in a relationship and the sex just comes up soon it kills all the romance but once you let is play for a while before sex, you would want that so much that it would be worth the journey.
So sex is important but love is most important.....let the love come first and buildup before the sex comes in because sometimes when you miss someone your not sure if your missing the person for sex or lovely time spent together.
It's mostly good when you miss someone,most of the time let it be because you remembered the lovely times you spent together and not because ur horny.

First thing first,you would have to know if she is a relationship or not......if she is in a loving relationship you would have to let her know how u feel and let her be,if she digs you or she is going thru a bad relationship then she would give you a lil green light from there you would start to play romeo.Life is short is better now your young you take your chances else when you get older you would wish you had done it but that would be later. take heart tel her how u feel and what and how far youwould go for her(it won't hurt)life is full of ups and downs...take your chance.
believe me you would feel much more happier tell her than leaving it inside u.

First thing first,you would have to know if she is a relationship or not......if she is in a loving relationship you would have to let her know how u feel and let her be,if she digs you or she is going thru a bad relationship then she would give you a lil green light from there you would start to play romeo.Life is short is better now your young you take your chances else when you get older you would wish you had done it but that would be later. take heart tel her how u feel and what and how far youwould go for her(it won't hurt)life is full of ups and downs...take your chance.
believe me you would feel much more happier tell her than leaving it inside u.

First thing first,you would have to know if she is a relationship or not......if she is in a loving relationship you would have to let her know how u feel and let her be,if she digs you or she is going thru a bad relationship then she would give you a lil green light from there you would start to play romeo.Life is short is better now your young you take your chances else when you get older you would wish you had done it but that would be later. take heart tel her how u feel and what and how far youwould go for her(it won't hurt)life is full of ups and downs...take your chance.
believe me you would feel much more happier tell her than leaving it inside u.

guy the truth would be for u to be yourself and tell her your mind since life is short is better you do it and get it out of your mind than living and regreting you did not do it and never knowing the outcome........ so if she is there somewhere take the chance (u live once) enjoy it and ask her but if you want to be fast follw myfriend advice here (emalux) lol that would get you disvirgined quickly lol holla

Well all is good but I really think this site is a bit boring just letting us talk in post or via mail,we should have a chat room where we could all hook up at the same time,chat,express ourself directly and meet people.