Sincereley I must say from experience,thats the worst thing any right thinking man should entangle himself with,especially at this time and age.
I no dey easy to control one wife,not to talk of 2 or more,at the end of the day,U as the polygamist would definetly be at the losing end.

If u discovered that a close pal of ur's is gay,how do u handle such a person?Especially when the both of U are quite close,though not intimate