Huuuuuuuuuuu! You are so wonderful, next time do not disclose your past to that extent again, if your spouse admitted it in the first instance, some years or days later when you do something wrong his mind will flash back to it and he will use it to react to you. In another way round when his creating joke with colleagues whenever they go out, he might be feeling embarrass when he hear good history about his friends wife's share compare to yours.
In conclusion, keep praying the victory is ur IJN wish the you the best