My name is Rita I have a wonderful daughter and a fiancee that we've agreed to get married by the end of the year, though he was not the father of my daughter, i had her when i was in sch, though her dad is late now. when i met this my fiancee he agreed to take her in as his own daughter when we finally marry. i love this my fiancee, that i can do anything to be with him and i kw he love me so much too even his family do same,. but then one day something happen, i came home and my daughter ask me what is the meaning of Virgina and i ask her who was teaching her all this ?? she said its uncle, when my fiancee came i then ask him what he was doing to the extent of teaching my baby such he laffed over it with just nothing, then it start to ring in my mind that i should be very careful on how i leave two of them together, but the one that breaks the camels back was that one day i came home and found ma daughter crying in her room when i went in there i ask her what and why the cry she opened her leg to me and i was very very surprise i nearly fainted if not that i came home with my girl friend every where was bloody, and bruises, that i tot arm robbers came to ma house, when i summon up courage to ask she said uncle pushed her to bed when she came out of bathroom and had his way on her. i was really mad and shouting that neighbors rushed to ma house to find out if some one died but when they got in they were all in tears of what they saw. and ask me to call police at once.i tried my fiances line but it was switched off. Note i am not living with ma fiancee he comes and goes. please my dear friends what do i do?? cos i am in total agony and pain, and i've lost so much in crying and being here and there out and in hospital to make sure my daughter is sound both in health, emotionally and psychologically. just two days ago my so called fiancee came to ma house with his elder bother to ask for my forgiveness i just called the police at once to come and arrest him but his elder brother said i should not do that, let settle in peace.

Now wht do i do?? to forgive or still insist for his arrest??
wht do i kw will happen in future if i continue with the marriage
my dota will always be in fear and trumar
pls ur advice is highly needed
thanks Rita.

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Posted: at 13-03-2013 01:58 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

CHEI ----
i know, its you that will always post such a topic na

Posted: at 13-03-2013 02:16 PM (11 years ago) | Grande Master

sopie i hail oh------i think first the post should have been  EX-FIANCE:try to talk to as not to leave any trauma with the poor girl-----if  he cums to beg forgive but warn him NEVER  to cum close to u or ur daugther he is a fool.

Posted: at 13-03-2013 02:23 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

sopie i hail oh------i think first the post should have been  EX-FIANCE:try to talk to as not to leave any trauma with the poor girl-----if  he cums to beg forgive but warn him NEVER  to cum close to u or ur daugther he is a fool.

Forgiving isnt that easy nne

Posted: at 13-03-2013 03:43 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

CHEI ----
i know, its you that will always post such a topic na

  Monki

Posted: at 13-03-2013 03:46 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

 
she -goat

Posted: at 13-03-2013 08:45 PM (11 years ago) | Grande Master

Forgiving isnt that easy nne

i no mean forgive and take him back oh---forgive becus i belive to err is human but to forgive is divine----forgive him(forgeting migth take sum time)
pass n pass out--no be say u pass oh---na becus they teacher no wan see u again

Posted: at 13-03-2013 10:19 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

you haven,t got a hiusband really , thats just the begining of the mess from that e-goat so, its eighter you take it or leave it, his father must originate from ZIMBABWE so

Posted: at 13-03-2013 10:25 PM (11 years ago) | Grande Master

 

Posted: at 13-03-2013 10:41 PM (11 years ago) | Hero

 

Posted: at 14-03-2013 12:30 PM (11 years ago) | Grande Master

Sad ey,desperation should not lead to seeing the lady sort this matter of such great magnitude outside the courts.the trauma will forver be with her daughter who will grow up thinking all men are wicked. She shouldn't even marry the bastard yet alone entertain his brother's plea.
The pains of a mother cut deep because of what she went through in bringing a child to the world and to be trodden upon like garbage by a man who has no control over his segxwal appetite,let the man be locked up. Another man,will come ur way worthy and respectful of ur love and trust(hmmm but ur daughter won't agree easily this time into accepting him)

Posted: at 14-03-2013 12:55 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

na wa ooooooooooooo

Posted: at 14-03-2013 10:05 PM (11 years ago) | Grande Master

And why wud u be worried sick abt a man who molested ur daughter??? warn him not to near u or ur daughter again or else he will spend d rest of his life in jail. dats all. wat more is to be done again??? or d tin no dey pain u at all?? Use d law to make him stay away.

Posted: at 16-03-2013 12:26 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

  u nor knw wot to do 
Me nor knw to vex wif u or d man 
Anybody wey touch my kid in such wey na beat i go beat am, not wif my own hand ooo
God forbid i go put mysef in prison for dat animal 

Posted: at 16-03-2013 01:24 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

what is there to forgive, the guy just raped his step daughter to be
just forget him please, he is an animal

Posted: at 16-03-2013 02:55 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

Posted: at 16-03-2013 04:41 PM (11 years ago) | Grande Master

forgive him but do not take him back,if e loves u truly e would take ur daughter as his own daughter not molesting her, if u marry him he might do worst when the child is grown..forgive him but let him go,ur daughter's happiness count too

Posted: at 16-03-2013 08:42 PM (11 years ago) | Hero

u could also deal with him before forgivin to fulfill the scripture but dont take him back

Posted: at 16-03-2013 08:48 PM (11 years ago) | Hero

i  c

Posted: at 16-03-2013 09:50 PM (11 years ago) | Grande Master

Keep seeing

Posted: at 17-03-2013 08:23 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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