Here I am again. I am just wondering if I should just let go. The only thing is, he has no where to go. He always picks arguments with me, after I pick him up from work, just before we lay our heads down to sleep, he has something negative to say to me, I just say I'm sorry or try to plead my case and pray, and try to sleep. I was taught never to go to bed angry with your spouse. I would really like to have a friend to talk to because I'm tired of holding all of these things inside.  I don't know, what to do.

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Posted: at 21-07-2009 07:11 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

ONCHENDU, where r u?

Posted: at 21-07-2009 07:15 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

awww where is Onchedu?

Posted: at 21-07-2009 07:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

so pityful u can't get that in here  bro......... what i ve to tell u is  this call her when sheis in her  best  mood and talk things over with herrrr.....

Posted: at 21-07-2009 07:20 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

so pityful u can't get that in here  bro......... what i ve to tell u is  this call her when sheis in her  best  mood and talk things over with herrrr.....

go to the post again and comment back cos what u are saying is contrary. tanx

Posted: at 21-07-2009 07:24 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Okay

Posted: at 21-07-2009 07:26 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

ONCHENDU, where r u?

awww where is Onchedu?

He is cumming.....As his wife, can I answer for him in his absence?

Posted: at 21-07-2009 09:43 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

so pityful u can't get that in here  bro......... what i ve to tell u is  this call her when sheis in her  best  mood and talk things over with herrrr.....

go to the post again and comment back cos what u are saying is contrary. tanx

our own don finfish b dat that means say we get np police yepa
wen next u post nonsense
guess who knockin on ya profile
d np police
i wonder who b inspector general

Posted: at 21-07-2009 09:45 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Here I am again. I am just wondering if I should just let go. The only thing is, he has no where to go. He always picks arguments with me, after I pick him up from work, just before we lay our heads down to sleep, he has something negative to say to me, I just say I'm sorry or try to plead my case and pray, and try to sleep. I was taught never to go to bed angry with your spouse. I would really like to have a friend to talk to because I'm tired of holding all of these things inside.  I don't know, what to do.

Am sorry did u have a post b4 this, coz it looks like a continuation of something except i can't find it. Is it a bf or husband coz if its a boyfriend, girl please, u need to ask him maybe he's not interested anymore and now he is just looking for the b!tchy way out. You said you keep saying sorry , well tell him to quit critizing you and shut d f!uck up becoz after a while listening to the same sh!t over and over again u r gonna blow, and that usually isnt good. Now if its a husband that's an entirely different story.

Posted: at 21-07-2009 09:56 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Here I am again. I am just wondering if I should just let go. The only thing is, he has no where to go. He always picks arguments with me, after I pick him up from work, just before we lay our heads down to sleep, he has something negative to say to me, I just say I'm sorry or try to plead my case and pray, and try to sleep. I was taught never to go to bed angry with your spouse. I would really like to have a friend to talk to because I'm tired of holding all of these things inside.  I don't know, what to do.

if he picks argument about any little thin like who let the cap off d toothpaste then r are havin some serious issues. its obvious that he isnt happy. he may b seeing someone else. You should not have to walk on eggshells constantly to not set him off! Maybe it is time for you to separate. Marriage counseling is start!

Posted: at 21-07-2009 10:12 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Here I am again. I am just wondering if I should just let go. The only thing is, he has no where to go. He always picks arguments with me, after I pick him up from work, just before we lay our heads down to sleep, he has something negative to say to me, I just say I'm sorry or try to plead my case and pray, and try to sleep. I was taught never to go to bed angry with your spouse. I would really like to have a friend to talk to because I'm tired of holding all of these things inside.  I don't know, what to do.

my dear if u re tired of d r/ship then just pack it up. just close dat chapter. for what is d use of a r/ship when u re not happy in it.

Posted: at 21-07-2009 10:30 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

Here I am again. I am just wondering if I should just let go. The only thing is, he has no where to go. He always picks arguments with me, after I pick him up from work, just before we lay our heads down to sleep, he has something negative to say to me, I just say I'm sorry or try to plead my case and pray, and try to sleep. I was taught never to go to bed angry with your spouse. I would really like to have a friend to talk to because I'm tired of holding all of these things inside.  I don't know, what to do.

 

Posted: at 21-07-2009 11:02 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

ONCHENDU, where r u?

awww where is Onchedu?

U guys 've gotta consult De sacred Priest Mazi b4 calling on Onchendu!

Posted: at 22-07-2009 02:02 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Here I am again. I am just wondering if I should just let go. The only thing is, he has no where to go. He always picks arguments with me, after I pick him up from work, just before we lay our heads down to sleep, he has something negative to say to me, I just say I'm sorry or try to plead my case and pray, and try to sleep. I was taught never to go to bed angry with your spouse. I would really like to have a friend to talk to because I'm tired of holding all of these things inside.  I don't know, what to do.

awwww sorry.....

Posted: at 22-07-2009 03:50 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

 :'( :'( :'(

Posted: at 22-07-2009 05:13 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Here I am again. I am just wondering if I should just let go. The only thing is, he has no where to go. He always picks arguments with me, after I pick him up from work, just before we lay our heads down to sleep, he has something negative to say to me, I just say I'm sorry or try to plead my case and pray, and try to sleep. I was taught never to go to bed angry with your spouse. I would really like to have a friend to talk to because I'm tired of holding all of these things inside.  I don't know, what to do.

tell him off

Posted: at 22-07-2009 05:30 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

good solution!

Posted: at 23-07-2009 05:52 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

eye solution

Posted: at 23-07-2009 10:14 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

i cant get it bf or what

Posted: at 23-07-2009 10:25 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

Here I am again. I am just wondering if I should just let go. The only thing is, he has no where to go. He always picks arguments with me, after I pick him up from work, just before we lay our heads down to sleep, he has something negative to say to me, I just say I'm sorry or try to plead my case and pray, and try to sleep. I was taught never to go to bed angry with your spouse. I would really like to have a friend to talk to because I'm tired of holding all of these things inside.  I don't know, what to do.

Have U talked to him about the way his actions affect Ur emotions? have U tried finding out why he changed (I assume he did cos if he was always like that and U married him then U should just put a sock in it and live with Ur choices). Could it be stress from his work place? Maybe he has a lot on his mind? Maybe he has communicaton problems with U and perhaps U hurt him in a lil way he has commtted to heart and is not letting go of hence Ur getting the shock waves of the incident from the heart of a wounded boy living in Ur man?

People offended dont like being touched by their offenders. touch him in the most non segxwal way. if he pushes U away, touch him away... keep making physical contact with him for as long as it takes and bear the rejection he myt offer U till he starts welcoming Ur touch again. Make contact with his body at the slightes opportunity. If pushes U away, move back. Be gentle. Cry if U must but dont force it;  Wait till U cant take it anymore and let the sorrows gush out in tears... Men cant stand real tears the fake ones we can identify, the real ones we cant ignore no matter how hard ur hearts have gotten.

Posted: at 23-07-2009 10:51 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

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