thats why u are not advised to give 100% of ur heart when u fall in love.......

Posted: at 16-02-2008 04:38 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

[Steps]

Unhappy with your current relationship? Here are some ideas for ending it on good terms.

Steps

   1. However kind you may be, there is no way around the fact that this is going to hurt the other person. All you can do is try to minimize the pain.
   2. Do not break up with the person by phone, instant message, or e-mail; this is disrespectful. Have the decency to do it privately and in person.
   3. Try to avoid placing blame on the other person for the break up. Be as minimalist as possible in your explanation, especially if the reason for the break up is some fault you find with your partner. Don't be afraid to tell a little white lie to spare their feelings. It's much better to say something like "I need some space to grow as a person" than to say "You really annoy me".
   4. Afterwards, tell the person that you hope to stay in touch and that you still care about them.
   5. And if you don't really want to be friends with her, don't say,"Oh, but we can still be friends." It hurts more if you avoid her.


Tips

    * Following these rules will make the process much more painless for both of you and may get you a positive reference in the future.
    * NEVER EVER EVER EVER say any of the classic break-up lines like "It's not you, it's me."
    * Wait some time before getting another girlfriend, especially if your former girlfriend will run into you often.


Warnings

    * Let the break up be final. Don't keep going back and hooking up with the person over and over again.

How to break up with your boyfriend nicely

Posted: at 16-02-2008 09:09 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

they are no guidelines for breaking up nicely it is still a break up with is nice bout it.........just get the point across you are still gettin no more booty n e ways

Posted: at 17-02-2008 03:16 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

they are no guidelines for breaking up nicely it is still a break up with is nice bout it.........just get the point across you are still gettin no more booty n e ways

 

Posted: at 17-02-2008 06:33 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

well.......if ur boo did something nasty,u should give her a nasty break up that he or she would remember the entire life.....

Posted: at 18-02-2008 02:29 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

And they'll end up stalking you where you'll have to get a restraining order out on him...*ouch flashback*..

Posted: at 18-02-2008 10:22 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

well.......if ur boo did something nasty,u should give her a nasty break up that he or she would remember the entire life.....

i didnt read that...lol

Posted: at 19-02-2008 01:28 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

There's never a nice way when it comes to breaking up with someone cause hearts are still broken at the end..

For real

Posted: at 19-02-2008 10:04 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

thats why u are not advised to give 100% of ur heart when u fall in love.......

How many % did you give to your boo

Posted: at 19-02-2008 10:05 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

50%.......

Posted: at 19-02-2008 04:15 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

50%.......

And the other 50% ?

Posted: at 20-02-2008 04:34 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

for maself.......

Posted: at 20-02-2008 11:55 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

for maself.......

Ohh none for deji ?

Posted: at 20-02-2008 11:56 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

thats within the first 50%.........

Posted: at 20-02-2008 03:42 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

thats within the first 50%.........

Oh so u share the first 50 with deji and your real boo...25/25 each

Posted: at 20-02-2008 07:57 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

what makes u think that they are 2 different people....

Posted: at 20-02-2008 08:45 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

thats within the first 50%.........

Oh so u share the first 50 with deji and your real boo...25/25 each

So u now heard it from one of my chocolating and honeying Girls, so keep doing your research..

@Myra.......I love u so much.

Posted: at 21-02-2008 03:01 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

what makes u think that they are 2 different people....

Oh so you saying there are more than 2 or what >??

Posted: at 21-02-2008 06:22 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

Posted: at 21-02-2008 09:26 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

what makes u think that they are 2 different people....

Oh so you saying there are more than 2 or what >??

they are even more than 3, just open your eyes wide and u will get to know them all and for your information, more sexy hot babes are still joining...so?

Posted: at 21-02-2008 09:36 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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