WHETHER YOU’RE STARTING A NEW RELATIONSHIP, OR IN THE MIDDLE OF A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP, THERE’S ALWAYS A CHANCE THAT YOUR BOYFRIEND COULD BE CHEATING ON YOU. IF YOU HAVE REASONS TO SUSPECT HE’S CHEATING, OR IF YOU’RE JUST WONDERING IF YOU’RE OVER THINKING IT, FOLLOW THESE EASY TIPS TO FIND OUT WHETHER OR NOT YOUR MAN IS BEING FAITHFUL.

 Notice What he Says
Notice his excuses. Before, he always seemed ready to hang out, and now, his reasons for not being able to see you are piling up. At first, you believed him when he said he had a stomach ache or was too tired to go out, but you’re starting to wonder if he’s really trying to tell you that he doesn’t want to spend time with you because he’s busy hanging out with some other girl. Here are some signs that he may be cheating:
If he used to save all of his free time for you, but now he’s always going out for “boy’s night.” This is especially suspicious if he doesn’t have that many male friends, or never showed much of an interest in hanging out with his bros before.
If he’s suddenly working overtime all the time. Though he’s worked overtime occasionally in the past, suddenly things are really busy at work, and he seems to always be there instead of hanging out with you. Of course, many professions have a busy season, and he could be working on a more time-consuming project, but it’s more likely that he’s using overtime to mean “time with my other girlfriend.”
If he’s always too tired to stay out late or hang out and was never tired before, this may be a sign that he’s using his energy on someone else.
If you made a routine of having lunch or dinner together often and now he’s never in the mood, or just doesn’t feel well or isn’t hungry.
None of these signs alone means that your boyfriend is cheating on you. But if all of these things come up repeatedly, then it either means that he’s spending a lot of quality time with someone else, or that he doesn’t want to spend time with you anymore. If he’s always making excuses for why he doesn’t want to hang out with you, then you should ask yourself why you’re still in the relationship.
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Notice the things he says. Even when he’s not making excuses, your boyfriend could start saying things that make him sound like another person all together. If there’s suddenly a change in how he talks to you and how he talks in general, then he may be thinking of another lady. Here are some signs that the things he says may show that he’s cheating:
If he stops complementing you. Did he compliment you all the time before, and now he suddenly stopped any flattery? If he never tells you you’re beautiful, or mentions your best features and how awesome you generally are, then maybe he’s saving all of his flattery for someone else.
If he compliments you more often. If he wasn’t a big complementer, but suddenly he’s always telling you how amazing you are, he may be doing it out of guilt. If he does this after a long and unexplained absence, then this is particularly suspicious.
If he just sounds different. If he’s saying things he’s never said before, using words he’s never used before, or even laughing in a new way, then maybe he picked up these words from a special lady.
If he doesn’t return your texts for hours in the middle of a conversation. If you were having a long texting exchange and he’s suddenly MIA, it may mean that his new lady just showed up.
METHOD 2 OF 4: NOTICE WHAT HE DOES
See if there’s a change in your sex life. If he has another girlfriend, he may stop spending as much time in the bedroom with you, but it could also make him want to have more sex. Here are some things to look:
If you’re having a really long dry spell. If he never wants to have sex anymore, he may be getting it somewhere else.
If he suddenly has a voracious segxwal appetite. If he wants to have sex all the time all of a sudden, it may be because his sex drive has gone up from sleeping with another lady.
If he tries a ton of new moves in bed. He could be picking these up from another girl.
See if he’s much nicer or more helpful. Your boyfriend may have some serious guilt because he’s cheating on you, and this will actually make him much nicer to you. If you find that suddenly he’s helping out around the house a lot more or doing a ton of favors for you, he may be doing it to compensate.
If he cleans your apartment, fixes your car, or buys your groceries and has never done those things before, there may be a reason for it.
If he’s always asking if there’s any way he can help.
If he’s suddenly Mr. Romance and brings you candy and flowers, especially after a long period where he was distant.
See if he’s meticulously clean all of a sudden. If your boyfriend never cared about the state of his car or apartment but now he’s taking hours to clean it, he may be doing it to clean up for another lady or to hide evidence of her.
If his car used to be messy and is now spotless, he may be keeping it fresh for another lady.
If his apartment is much cleaner than it used to be, and if he always says he needs some time to clean up, he may be cleaning it to get rid of evidence of his other girl. If you really want to find out if he’s cheating on you, come over when he says he is “cleaning his apartment” and see what he’s really up to.
If he uses air freshener in his car or home. He may be using it to hide the smell of his lead lady.
See if his mood changes. Whether he seems to always be in a good mood, or is just moody all the time instead of his usual even-keeled self, then something is up. Pay attention to his mood to see if something is up:
If he’s sometimes in a ridiculously good mood, like he’s walking on sunshine, for no apparent reason. If he’s grinning ear to ear and looking off into the distance like he’s remembering a fond memory with another girl, then chances are his good mood has nothing to do with you.
If he’s suddenly in a terrible mood. If everything seems fine and he’s suddenly furious or very upset, especially after a phone call or text message, then another girl may have had something to do with it.

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