Beat FM OAP, Tolulope ”Toolz” Oniru, has shared her most candid thoughts spurred by the recent rejection of the ‘Gender Inequality Bill’ by the senate.
In a lengthy piece she shared on Instagram, she wrote:
I joke around often and try not to get too into my feelings on IG, because it’s easier that way, but this made me think quite a bit.
What is it about our society that makes tearing each other down the first thing a lot of women think to do? (Not every woman btw)
A lot of women were appalled when the gender equality bill was thrown out, but after talking about it extensively on radio and everywhere else, I came to the conclusion that we as Nigerian (African) women have a lot to do ourselves before things can change positively.
I’m not preaching here, as I’m still working on me but I hope we think more about what we are doing for the next generation of African women.
Sadly a lot of us have been conditioned to think of other women as competition as opposed to comrades. I honestly believe that a lot of the conditions we face in our communities are down to us failing at looking out for each other.
Imagine how powerful we would be if we were able to come together better?
Every now and then I look at other women more successful than me, and start to feel insecure, but I’ve learnt to change that energy. Now I get so inspired…I think if she can do great things, so can I….I think ‘she’s doing great, so I better get my sh*t together and move up this success ladder.
As much I love what I do, being in the public eye sucks sometimes, because it can be difficult dealing with being torn apart a lot. I’ve been doing this for about 7 years, and it’s still makes me sad when I get hate from women.

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Posted: at 26-03-2016 08:42 AM (8 years ago) | Newbie

Who cares.....  Next in line please

Posted: at 26-03-2016 09:05 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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Posted: at 26-03-2016 09:55 AM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero

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Posted: at 26-03-2016 10:22 AM (8 years ago) | Hero

if u cant beat them join them!!! u too start asewo buszzi

Posted: at 26-03-2016 10:34 AM (8 years ago) | Grande Master

I saw,,,,, dis kain cup of ur garri don tey

Posted: at 26-03-2016 10:39 AM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Women's talk

Posted: at 26-03-2016 10:44 AM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero

And I feel erected anytime I look at your backside

Posted: at 26-03-2016 10:46 AM (8 years ago) | Hero

This babe husband dey enjoy o.shai see mature and clean babe,see nice shape.she is loaded back and front.

beneno!.oya enter kitchen. This is adult food

Posted: at 26-03-2016 10:54 AM (8 years ago) | Hero

if u cant beat them join them!!! u too start asewo buszzi

Posted: at 26-03-2016 10:55 AM (8 years ago) | Hero

story for ghosts, no worry una time go soon come.

Posted: at 26-03-2016 11:48 AM (8 years ago) | Hero

Next plz,,,,

Posted: at 26-03-2016 12:10 PM (8 years ago) | Hero

And I feel erected anytime I look at your backside

see your randy life.

Posted: at 26-03-2016 02:33 PM (8 years ago) | Hero

Ok,we don hear.

Posted: at 26-03-2016 09:23 PM (8 years ago) | Hero

beneno!.oya enter kitchen. This is adult food

hahaha is really adults food I can't stop laughing

Posted: at 26-03-2016 09:52 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

so, wetin make i do to that now and how e take affect me for here?

Posted: at 26-03-2016 11:25 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

This babe husband dey enjoy o.shai see mature and clean babe,see nice shape.she is loaded back and front.

hmmmmmmm.... Lolsssss...don't mind him...na so men they do

Posted: at 27-03-2016 10:10 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

if u cant beat them join them!!! u too start asewo buszzi

na so life be jare... If you can't beat them... Join them...  Don't mind that yeye gurl

Posted: at 27-03-2016 10:11 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I saw,,,,, dis kain cup of ur garri don tey

hmmmmmm.... Are you sure na the pinkin cup of tea

Posted: at 27-03-2016 10:15 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

happens all the time

Posted: at 27-03-2016 12:47 PM (8 years ago) | Hero

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