[The woman’s husband and his new wife]

A GISTMANIA reader based in Auchi, Benin City has revealed how her husband abandoned her with three children for the past four years. She added that the man is now engaged to another lady.

The lady exclusively reported to GISTMANIA that she also contributed into his education.

She further added how he drove her out of the house when her twin babies were just a month and five days. She said he came begging afterwards and everything was fine before he finally abandoned them.

The woman’s husband and his new wife

The woman said: “I have suffered for my husband right from school till we got married. I even paid 90% of his school fess. I have three kids for him and now he abandoned us for a small girl since for the past four years. I heard he has engaged the young lady without feeding my own children or paying their school fees, not to talk of their maintenance fee. I was told my husband’s pastor introduced him to the girl. My twins were a month and five days old when he first drove us out of his house, he later came begging and we settled.

When we met in year 2000, he did not have a job rather I was the one trading from one village to another. He was respecting me back then, now GOD gave him a good job he started womanizing, lodging from one hotel to another. I became a bad wife; all my friends called me a fool for taking care of a man but turned deaf ears because I was looking at the future.”

On the issue of domestic violence, the angry woman added that after she assisted in completing a two bedroom flat her husband started beating her anytime she asked about his whereabout.

Their Children

She said: “I joined him in building a two bedroom flat. He started beating anytime I question him about where he slept the previous night. He even brings women to my matrimonial house. He has blocked me from accessing his Facebook profile but his friends sent me all the details. My twins turned 8 recently while my son is 11 years old. In 2011, he came back claiming it was the work of the devil and in 2013, he became the C.L.O at licensing office Igara. Afterwards he called my dad to come pack my things from the house. However, we started dating in 2000, I had a son for him and when he was in his final year at Auchi Polytechnic, I had my twin girls. That girl can never find peace in that marriage.”

Nawa o!

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Posted: at 22-10-2017 08:00 AM (6 years ago) | Addicted Hero

no comment till i hear from the man!some women tell liars and wise in doing evil!africa men may be evil but not to abandon his own children!

Posted: at 22-10-2017 08:11 AM (6 years ago) | Upcoming

My dear I feel your pain, but all I will tell you is that the Lord has a way of rewarding everybody. Since you've started taking care of the kids keep on doing that, let them be a source of joy for you.
Just make sure you let the man's family know about the way things are now.
The Lord is your strength and he will continually be with you always.

Posted: at 22-10-2017 09:21 AM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac

schoolboy  error, never send anybody to school except your child

Posted: at 22-10-2017 09:46 AM (6 years ago) | Grande Master

schoolboy  error, never send anybody to school except your child

Gbam

Posted: at 22-10-2017 10:05 AM (6 years ago) | Upcoming

See beautiful children...GOD is your strength and he will see you through....GOD dont sleep at all just look up to him.for better days ahead

Posted: at 22-10-2017 02:46 PM (6 years ago) | Hero

Madam. Let us hear from the man first. Women. Women, women. How many times did I call you?

Posted: at 22-10-2017 09:48 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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