South African Man Who Was Gang Raped By 3 Ladies Speaks: Here’s How It Happened

Published 2 years ago by: Mister Jay Wonder
at 4-02-2018 08:02AM (2 years ago)

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A Hluhluwe man has said he will not be able to forgive the three (the third one held the camera) women who ra*ped him.

A video of the incident appeared on social media and has since gone viral.

The man, whose name is known to the Daily News, said he was at home when a woman whom he knows called him over, saying she needed help with an electrical problem at her home.

“I went into her house and when I got there, I saw another girl in the room. I did not pay any attention to her. Then another girl who was hiding behind the door closed it, that’s when I realised that something was wrong.”

He said after they closed the door behind him, they told him they wanted to sleep with him.

“I initially thought they were joking,” he said.
However, he soon realised they were serious when he was attacked. He said he tried to defend himself but his arm was weak since he had injured it in an accident years ago.

He said he was let go and he went home and took a shower. He said the incident had left him feeling confused.

“I told my older sister about what happened but she thought I was joking.”


It was only after a video appeared online that she took what he said seriously and encouraged him to go to the police. He said he feared going to the police because he thought they would not take him seriously.

“When I told them what happened they were shocked. The three women were arrested the same day I reported the matter.”

The alleged rapists were people he knew and grew up with in the area, he said.

“I’m very angry,” he said of the assault. One of the families of the alleged rap*ists went to the man’s home to try to make amends, he said.
“My brothers and sisters were not having any of it,” he said.

He was looking forward to the trial and wanted the women to be severely punished. “People like that should not be part of society.”

What made it more difficult to move on was that the video was on social media and people had come to ask him what happened.

“It is something I never thought would happen to me. There is not much I can do but try to move on.”

According to Reese Mann, executive director of the South African Male Survivors of Se*xual Abuse (Samssa), one out of six males before the age of 18 were se*xually abused.

Mann said 19.3% of all se*xual violations reported to police involved male victims.

“Male victims of se*xual abuse are less likely than their female counterparts to report incidents of se*xual abuse, because police and the judiciary don’t take it seriously,” Mann said.

Mann said a widely held myth was that if males got an erection and/or, ejaculated during the se*xual abuse, they must have enjoyed it.

“A man being ra*ped can still get an erection because it is in the physiological make-up of males that if they are caressed long enough they end up getting an erec)tion,” said Mann.

He said there was also the myth that men should be capable of protecting themselves against se*xual abuse.

“There are three stages that any victim of se*xual abuse goes through, and they are called the three Fs.
“They can fight back, they can flee or they are just overcome by fear and the force exerted by the perpetrator, in which case they just freeze,” said Mann.

Police spokesman, Lieutenant-Colonel Thulani Zwane, confirmed the incident and said the women had appeared in the Hluhluwe Magistrate’s Court last Thursday and were expected to appear again on Tuesday for a bail application.

He said they were being held in custody.



Haso112 at 4-02-2018 08:17AM (2 years ago)
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LOBATAN......!!!  Shocked Shocked Shocked
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arusmu at 4-02-2018 08:19AM (2 years ago)
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IT ALWAYS HAPPEN ONLY MALE DONT LIKE TO MAKE REPORTS EVEN THE WAYS GIRLS AND LADIES ARE POSTING SEXY POST THEY RAPE MEN INDOOR MEN BE CAREFULL
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slimber at 4-02-2018 08:36AM (2 years ago)
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Women molesting man but for what and why.
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fineboy77 at 4-02-2018 08:49AM (2 years ago)
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hmm,what can i say

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WhaleDog at 4-02-2018 09:28AM (2 years ago)
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It started way back in the days of Adam !

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ehudomalt at 4-02-2018 10:03AM (2 years ago)
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who rape who?
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Gabby111 at 4-02-2018 10:12AM (2 years ago)
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Where the video mk I see
Nonsense.
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Mykie010 at 4-02-2018 11:57AM (2 years ago)
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I no want make South African girls rape me, but I no go mind American girls. dem fit come rape
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kenosas at 4-02-2018 01:49PM (2 years ago)
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Which kind rape, only wat men are scare of in this kind of misfortune event is the fear of not to contact deseases,boc u might not know if they re already infected by any desease,otherwise many male vitims could ve not be complaining about it, just like this case,it was until the sister told him to go and report to the police b4 he made such moved.
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benosky4 at 4-02-2018 02:00PM (2 years ago)
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better witnessed than experienced.
I got to be more careful.

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johnnychuks2 at 4-02-2018 10:48PM (2 years ago)
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Rape ke? Wey there adress.i want to go to that same house, wether na 3 or 5 girls... i swear dem no fit rape me.. girls wey una dey?
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gogoman at 4-02-2018 11:40PM (2 years ago)
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send them to jail!!! na so dem dey do
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ruthie at 5-02-2018 09:56AM (2 years ago)
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Quote from: Mykie010 on  4-02-2018 11:57AM
I no want make South African girls rape me, but I no go mind American girls. dem fit come rape
READ COMMENTS FROM A FULL GROWN MAN...SMH
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ruthie at 5-02-2018 09:57AM (2 years ago)
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IMMEDIATE PROSECUTION
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cypanyahucha at 5-02-2018 06:40PM (2 years ago)
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What can I say? Just speechless
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