Gentlemen in the house this is for U. It's not about sex or Bosom s or shaving or not shaving the pubic hair and it's not about wet or dry pleasure holes, blowjobs or licking (abi sucking) kitties.

It's about caring for the woman U love.

Here goes:

U just got married to the woman of Ur dreams and on Ur honeymoon that lasted a month, U scored a goal (heck U could have scored 10 goals if nature let U). The sex was fun as was the love making. U both had tons of pure FUN and bonded on a more intimate level. U came back home more in love with her as she more than she is with U.

A month after she breaks the news to U that she's got Ur bun in her oven and U do the celebration dances and spurge on her.

Three months in and U get  to discover a part of Ur wife neither U nor her anticipated. Her body isnt taking the pregnancy very well. She's spitting constantly and throws up all over the place and most times ur around when she does this.

The question is, loving her as much as U do, how easily would U clean up after her if U would at all?

Personally I think most guys would just adjust their schedules to make sure they aren't at home as often as they would be normally.

Ladies, how would U wade thru this rather unexpected development?

Just wondering.

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Posted: at 8-06-2010 07:43 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

nice question onchedu.. personally i know dat it wont be all that easy for me, at least sometimes it will look some how disgusting to me but am gonna try my best

Posted: at 8-06-2010 07:49 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

I disagree with u, personally i will av to be around her helping her doing one or two things she might not be able to do....she needs my attention more at that time and will definitely make myself available............

Posted: at 8-06-2010 07:54 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I disagree with u, personally i will av to be around her helping her doing one or two things she might not be able to do....she needs my attention more at that time and will definitely make myself available............

is easier said than done.. i know men, only 8 out of hundred will do that.. the highest thing they will do for u is to get u a maid

Posted: at 8-06-2010 07:57 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

Nice words Esonu. As for me I'm not the best caregiver I know.

I don't even know how to spit and it ttally grosses me out when anyone spits near me.
Cleaning up after someone else is not one of my strong points at all, and the thot of having to clean up vomit and endure a spitting wife absolutely scares me. Anyway, lets hope for the best and be prepared for the worst. Abi?

Posted: at 8-06-2010 07:59 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

yes oooooo

Posted: at 8-06-2010 08:01 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

I disagree with u, personally i will av to be around her helping her doing one or two things she might not be able to do....she needs my attention more at that time and will definitely make myself available............

This is not about helping her do what she's not able to to (What's that sef that she shouldn't be able to do unless she has a medical complication? I've witnessed women pounding yam a few days to delivery and carrying themselves enthusiastically, not lying in bed asking for this and that and forming like the pregnancy were a disease and those ended up having easier births than the others)

This is about cleaning up after her and being able to endure the irritatating developments resultant in Ur hand (abi penis) work.

Posted: at 8-06-2010 08:03 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

I disagree with u, personally i will av to be around her helping her doing one or two things she might not be able to do....she needs my attention more at that time and will definitely make myself available............

is easier said than done.. i know men, only 8 out of hundred will do that.. the highest thing they will do for u is to get u a maid

well, its my own opinion........and i am not in support of any maid in my home..........

Posted: at 8-06-2010 08:07 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I disagree with u, personally i will av to be around her helping her doing one or two things she might not be able to do....she needs my attention more at that time and will definitely make myself available............

This is not about helping her do what she's not able to to (What's that sef that she shouldn't be able to do unless she has a medical complication? I've witnessed women pounding yam a few days to delivery and carrying themselves enthusiastically, not lying in bed asking for this and that and forming like the pregnancy were a disease and those ended up having easier births than the others)

This is about cleaning up after her and being able to endure the irritatating developments resultant in Ur hand (abi penis) work.

does she has to spit around the house.......is it all pregnant woman that spit........i dont see any reason i should leave her alone cos of watever she does...........

Posted: at 8-06-2010 08:08 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Not every woman spits during pregnancy but dem no dey write am for head who go spit and who no go spit so how U wan take know?

Some women spit and U'l hardly ever catch them do it. Others carry a bowl around and fill it up with grossy lemonade while some are decent enough to fill the bowl with some earth. Arrggghhhh
The funny thing is it's usualy not the normal spittle, it's more commonly the drossy, whitish phlegm filled kind....

Ok, lets just move ahead already...

No one is asking U to leave her alone. Ur opinion has been noted and is respected as urs.

Posted: at 8-06-2010 08:21 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

thanks............

Posted: at 8-06-2010 08:30 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Ur welcome.

Posted: at 8-06-2010 08:37 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

ok

Posted: at 8-06-2010 08:45 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

E be like say the ladies never wake up today, abi dem dey fear to talk?

Posted: at 8-06-2010 08:48 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

dem go soon come na

Posted: at 8-06-2010 08:59 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

The remaining guys sef wey dey make sense never show. Abi today na friday?

Posted: at 8-06-2010 09:07 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

Nice words Esonu. As for me I'm not the best caregiver I know.

I don't even know how to spit and it ttally grosses me out when anyone spits near me.
Cleaning up after someone else is not one of my strong points at all, and the thot of having to clean up vomit and endure a spitting wife absolutely scares me. Anyway, lets hope for the best and be prepared for the worst. Abi?

And ye shall be one....you mean your wife's spits disgust you...?

Posted: at 8-06-2010 09:11 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I didnt say so. I said I don't know how to and I don't like it when people do. Where did U see me write that my wife's spit disgusts me?

Posted: at 8-06-2010 09:19 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

I disagree with u, personally i will av to be around her helping her doing one or two things she might not be able to do....she needs my attention more at that time and will definitely make myself available............

This is not about helping her do what she's not able to to (What's that sef that she shouldn't be able to do unless she has a medical complication? I've witnessed women pounding yam a few days to delivery and carrying themselves enthusiastically, not lying in bed asking for this and that and forming like the pregnancy were a disease and those ended up having easier births than the others)

This is about cleaning up after her and being able to endure the irritatating developments resultant in Ur hand (abi penis) work.

When rating..have in mind that human has diff. body metabolism..(sm women are weak during dis stage to sm its a double strength)..i'm not in support of any woman lazying around at dis stage, but has a man and a loving hubby dis a stage u shd show ur love and care.

Posted: at 8-06-2010 09:24 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

And what happens f he doesnt? U get ticked off and swear and cuss and are left alone to tend to Urself and ur baby and after U have the child Ur marriage is strained and it's not even a year yet.

I understand the care giving part. The question I put to the ladies is not what U've answered. Ur attempting to answer for the guys.

Posted: at 8-06-2010 09:30 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

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