[lol...every r/s is all abt being happy and comfortable. to some ppl why hang on to a r/s u r not happy in? datz why divorce rate in abroad is very high.any arrangement dat can guarantee a longer, stable and happy r/s is highly subscribed to.my man....all cool!jst took a vacation!]

lol...every r/s is all abt being happy and comfortable.
to some ppl why hang on to a r/s u r not happy in? datz why divorce rate in abroad is very high.
any arrangement dat can guarantee a longer, stable and happy r/s is highly subscribed to.

my man....all cool!
jst took a vacation!

Posted: at 30-08-2010 04:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

[Reason being?]

Reason being?

I dont have to give you a reason why I CANT

Realli? we'll den ur contribrution is pointless to the topic.

Posted: at 30-08-2010 04:34 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

[Umm i don't understand how u cna be happy or comfrotable in arelationship that is goin knowhere it's like walking on a rope u never know when ur gonna fall.]

Umm i don't understand how u cna be happy or comfrotable in arelationship that is goin knowhere it's like walking on a rope u never know when ur gonna fall.

Posted: at 30-08-2010 04:37 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

cant live wit him until am married

Posted: at 30-08-2010 04:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

[People just want 2 get married but they don't even know y?isn't dat stupid?]

People just want 2 get married but they don't even know y?isn't dat stupid?

Posted: at 30-08-2010 04:41 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Well i do have a friend like that and they now have two kids a boy and a girl and i dont think they are planning to have another one. Its really unGodly but thats what the world is turning to except we pray well for God to take control.

Posted: at 30-08-2010 04:47 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

[Wateva sha i need an explanation as in reason y they make such decisons or y they wouldn't.....no more stories.]

Wateva sha i need an explanation as in reason y they make such decisons or y they wouldn't.....no more stories.

Posted: at 30-08-2010 04:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

nope..cant live wit some1 witout eva gettin married to dem....COS am a christian n God frowns at it.

Posted: at 30-08-2010 04:51 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

[We'll done gurl atleast u have a reason!]

We'll done gurl atleast u have a reason!

Posted: at 30-08-2010 04:52 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

[Umm i don't understand how u cna be happy or comfrotable in arelationship that is goin knowhere it's like walking on a rope u never know when ur gonna fall.]

Umm i don't understand how u cna be happy or comfrotable in arelationship that is goin knowhere it's like walking on a rope u never know when ur gonna fall.

dis is not a case of one person not knowing where d r/s is going.
rather did is a case of two ppl who r enjoying d kind of relationship they r having and happy in it.
some at times decide to get married later, after several yrs. it is all mutual.

Posted: at 30-08-2010 05:08 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

[Reason being?]

Reason being?

I dont have to give you a reason why I CANT

Realli? we'll den ur contribrution is pointless to the topic.

Fine.........You asked CAN YOU......and I said I CANT.........question answered

Posted: at 30-08-2010 05:10 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

me can no fit oooo...even religion frown @ dat..

Posted: at 30-08-2010 05:12 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

[I see religion is d case.]

I see religion is d case.

Posted: at 30-08-2010 05:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

[Umm i don't understand how u cna be happy or comfrotable in arelationship that is goin knowhere it's like walking on a rope u never know when ur gonna fall.]

Umm i don't understand how u cna be happy or comfrotable in arelationship that is goin knowhere it's like walking on a rope u never know when ur gonna fall.

dis is not a case of one person not knowing where d r/s is going.
rather did is a case of two ppl who r enjoying d kind of relationship they r having and happy in it.
some at times decide to get married later, after several yrs. it is all mutual.

So they told u this?

Posted: at 30-08-2010 05:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

[Reason being?]

Reason being?

I dont have to give you a reason why I CANT

Realli? we'll den ur contribrution is pointless to the topic.

Fine.........You asked CAN YOU......and I said I CANT.........question answered

Bai bai

Posted: at 30-08-2010 05:14 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

It might be too early for me to respond to this question with yes or no,
but that is very common today NOT in Africa, but in other cotinents.
In countries like Germany..., it`s a>> "social responsibility"<< that latest, at the age of 16, one should have a lover (boy/girlfriend). It`s equally expected that between the ages of 18 & 22, one should move out of the family house into his/her own home (quit unlike the African/Asian tradition).

At this time, its normal either to move into your boyfriend`s- or your girlfriend`s  apartment as the case may be or you guys `ll arrange for one together. In most cases, the parents pay for the apartment.
Statistics say, the number of unmarried couples is almost 3times the number of married couples there.

In some countries, once you move in together, you`re legally seen by the state as couple: married or not.

Here in Nigeria, I know a few persons, who have lived with their boyfriends for some years now.
They`re financially independent of each other but understand each other very good.
They`re just happy & comfortable together unmarried.

Posted: at 30-08-2010 05:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

yes i can

Posted: at 30-08-2010 05:21 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

[Hmm ok]

It might be too early for me to respond to this question with yes or no,
but that is very common today NOT in Africa, but in other cotinents.
In countries like Germany..., it`s a>> "social responsibility"<< that latest, at the age of 16, one should have a lover (boy/girlfriend). It`s equally expected that between the ages of 18 & 22, one should move out of the family house into his/her own home (quit unlike the African/Asian tradition).

At this time, its normal either to move into your boyfriend`s- or your girlfriend`s  apartment as the case may be or you guys `ll arrange for one together. In most cases, the parents pay for the apartment.
Statistics say, the number of unmarried couples is almost 3times the number of married couples there.

In some countries, once you move in together, you`re legally seen by the state as couple: married or not.

Here in Nigeria, I know a few persons, who have lived with their boyfriends for some years now.
They`re financially independent of each other but understand each other very good.
They`re just happy & comfortable together unmarried.

Hmm ok

Posted: at 30-08-2010 05:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

is all about love & trust

Posted: at 30-08-2010 06:00 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

[Geez my first marriage topic...]

Geez my first marriage topic...

Posted: at 30-08-2010 07:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

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