I am married and I have five kids but am sooooo lonely. What is wrong with me. I enjoy being with my kids but there is  a limit to the type of joy kids can give. My husband? We don't seem to have anything in common.  What can I do?

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Posted: at 30-09-2010 01:59 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

First, are u a woman? Because you set it as being a man!
Anyway, I guess u've married with the wrong person! 

Posted: at 30-09-2010 02:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Go see ur pastor thats if u have one

Posted: at 30-09-2010 10:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

well, ask God to reveal who ur husband is. is not abt the yrs spent together... its about the bond btween the two of u.

Posted: at 30-09-2010 10:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

I am married and I have five kids but am sooooo lonely. What is wrong with me. I enjoy being with my kids but there is  a limit to the type of joy kids can give. My husband? We don't seem to have anything in common.  What can I do?

After All these years?

Woman, yu can't Complain anymore. Work things out!

Posted: at 30-09-2010 11:12 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

I am married and I have five kids but am sooooo lonely. What is wrong with me. I enjoy being with my kids but there is  a limit to the type of joy kids can give. My husband? We don't seem to have anything in common.  What can I do?

After All these years?

Woman, yu can't Complain anymore. Work things out!

Exactly the right words.

Posted: at 30-09-2010 11:45 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

[you are not living like a family.until u rediscover and re-kindle dat family light dat is non-existent in ur marriage u'll continue to feel lonely.dat feelings is warning or do i say a reminding u dat there's something missing around u.find it, re-discover it by re-igniting dat lost connection between you and ur husband.wen u do dat, dat joy missing in ur marriage will return and ur life will be whole again.]

you are not living like a family.
until u rediscover and re-kindle dat family light dat is non-existent in ur marriage u'll continue to feel lonely.
dat feelings is warning or do i say a reminding u dat there's something missing around u.
find it, re-discover it by re-igniting dat lost connection between you and ur husband.

wen u do dat, dat joy missing in ur marriage will return and ur life will be whole again.

Posted: at 1-10-2010 12:14 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

wow...........you try

well said kennee.. i think you need to go out with your husband to romantic places and dine out in nice places
explore life with him, wear killer outfit that men will be looking at you.........

then when you get home... put on nice la senza under wear....

if you do this wella the spark will come back...   
 

Posted: at 1-10-2010 01:55 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

try ad pray ad ask GOD to change ur man to the normal way u want it,bcuz u are already married 

Posted: at 1-10-2010 02:41 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

How com u figure it out now tht u hav nottin in common??

U have ur family and ur home, so work on it!

Posted: at 1-10-2010 10:12 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

wow...........you try

well said kennee.. i think you need to go out with your husband to romantic places and dine out in nice places
explore life with him, wear killer outfit that men will be looking at you.........

then when you get home... put on nice la senza under wear....

if you do this wella the spark will come back...   
 

la senza under wear...abeg u want dem to make 6th baby?? 

Posted: at 1-10-2010 10:13 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

speechless

Posted: at 1-10-2010 10:21 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

wow...........you try

well said kennee.. i think you need to go out with your husband to romantic places and dine out in nice places
explore life with him, wear killer outfit that men will be looking at you.........

then when you get home... put on nice la senza under wear....

if you do this wella the spark will come back...   
 

la senza under wear...abeg u want dem to make 6th baby?? 

IT IS THEIR CHOICE OO

Posted: at 1-10-2010 11:50 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

wow...........you try

well said kennee.. i think you need to go out with your husband to romantic places and dine out in nice places
explore life with him, wear killer outfit that men will be looking at you.........

then when you get home... put on nice la senza under wear....

if you do this wella the spark will come back...   
 

la senza under wear...abeg u want dem to make 6th baby?? 

IT IS THEIR CHOICE OO

Their choice but i dont agree with having a baby in an 'unhappy' home

Posted: at 1-10-2010 12:04 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

peeped

Posted: at 1-10-2010 12:19 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

well my sister, God will not come down and change your home for you...

many women doesn't care about looking good after having children..
you need to package yourself more after having kids because men nowadays like their females partner to look good..
having children doesn't mean you shouldn't  have fun and have quality time with you husband..

@poster nothing is wrong with you..... i sense that maybe your husband now see you as old fashion woman.
please upgrade yourself show him what he is missing... life is too short to wake up with regrets

( but pls go and do family planning, he be scared of impregnating you again)

PS... LADIES WITH NO CHILDREN ARE STILL STRUGGLING TO KEEP THIER HUSBANDS TALKLESS OF WE THAT HAVE KIDS..

I UNDERSTAND YOU AND I WISH YOU WELL.. INSHALLAH.... AND IN JESUS NAME

Posted: at 1-10-2010 01:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

My sista u r right... many 'mothers' forgot how it is to

be a 'wife' and a 'woman'!! It is very important when u take care of ur family,

not to forget abt urself too!! It is not easy to create a happy/good home, but even

more difficult to KEEP one!

Posted: at 1-10-2010 01:04 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

exactly.. spot on

Posted: at 1-10-2010 02:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

[Are you a woman or are you asking for someone?Because your profile reads male.]

Are you a woman or are you asking for someone?
Because your profile reads male.

Posted: at 1-10-2010 02:34 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

U are not happy afta 5 kids? U shld know ur hubby is tired of bolting u! gals yapa 4 street

Posted: at 1-10-2010 03:26 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

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