What are d most common relationship problems you see?

I think one of d biggest must b money....

Pals, let me hear d possible problems and sollutions or how to prevent it!

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Posted: at 23-10-2010 07:49 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Poor communication
Lack of trust and lack of prioritizing the marriage/relationship

Posted: at 23-10-2010 07:55 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Not only money.there's alot more to it like......lies and most of it is cheating..i believe the only solution to it is if the both people that are involve can always be honest to each other and get to understand their selves better there will be no much problem at all

Posted: at 23-10-2010 07:59 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

yea communication can b a problem sometimes, but how can u fix tht?

Som ppl r not into talkin dat much u knw

Prioritizing...in which way ?

Posted: at 23-10-2010 08:01 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Not only money.there's alot more to it like......lies and most of it is cheating..i believe the only solution to it is if the both people that are involve can always be honest to each other and get to understand their selves better there will be no much problem at all

but be4 u can understand ursef it takes time sometimes...

How can u prevent cheatin?

Posted: at 23-10-2010 08:02 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

For communication,most couples don't know how to communicate well with their partners. While communicatio, they always raise their voices or even interrupt one other will talking being unable to listen to what the other person is saying.

As for the other part,couples complain that their partners don't spend enough time with them.They always concentrate on work,other friends and their family.This reduces the trust level in the relationship as one thinks that the other is not serious about the relationship.

Posted: at 23-10-2010 08:05 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Trust,friends ideas,sex,money,pride,shame.Wat else? Hmn i'm coming

Posted: at 23-10-2010 08:12 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Well i will say it depend on the people that are involve in the sense that when u truely love some u will always go out of ur way to please him or her.especially if u guys are meants to be.like u know relationship has so many side....4 instance some ppl are just in a relationship just bcs others are in too some are in bcs of money and to acheive one or two things from the other person..
and as for the cheating part of it....i strongly believe that u dont cheat on someone u truely love and care for...the only way one can stop cheating is to be honest with ur parter and it has to do with detemination

Posted: at 23-10-2010 08:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Another problem is Immaturity...Too many immature minds are going into love relationships today, expecting all to be rosy and that's why at the slightest provocation from their partners, they go GAGA! A love relationship, requires lots of maturity from both parties, which breeds tolerance...

Posted: at 23-10-2010 08:33 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

For communication,most couples don't know how to communicate well with their partners. While communicatio, they always raise their voices or even interrupt one other will talking being unable to listen to what the other person is saying.

As for the other part,couples complain that their partners don't spend enough time with them.They always concentrate on work,other friends and their family.This reduces the trust level in the relationship as one thinks that the other is not serious about the relationship.

That is true, many ppl talk but when it is an 'empty' conversation
it would be better not to talk at all!
Interrupting when i am talking is very disturbing to me, because it makes me feel like u dont
respect what i have to say.

Spending time with each other is indeed very imporant, when it is quality time!
But to do all of these things is not always possible...

Posted: at 23-10-2010 08:34 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Trust,friends ideas,sex,money,pride,shame.Wat else? Hmn i'm coming

yes correct!

But for friends ideas u hav to giv me som explanation?
And which kind shame we talkin abt ?

Posted: at 23-10-2010 08:35 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

For communication,most couples don't know how to communicate well with their partners. While communicatio, they always raise their voices or even interrupt one other will talking being unable to listen to what the other person is saying.

As for the other part,couples complain that their partners don't spend enough time with them.They always concentrate on work,other friends and their family.This reduces the trust level in the relationship as one thinks that the other is not serious about the relationship.

That is true, many ppl talk but when it is an 'empty' conversation
it would be better not to talk at all!
Interrupting when i am talking is very disturbing to me, because it makes me feel like u dont
respect what i have to say.

Spending time with each other is indeed very imporant, when it is quality time!
But to do all of these things is not always possible...

So therefore....wahala comes!
 

Posted: at 23-10-2010 08:37 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Well i will say it depend on the people that are involve in the sense that when u truely love some u will always go out of ur way to please him or her.especially if u guys are meants to be.like u know relationship has so many side....4 instance some ppl are just in a relationship just bcs others are in too some are in bcs of money and to acheive one or two things from the other person..
and as for the cheating part of it....i strongly believe that u dont cheat on someone u truely love and care for...the only way one can stop cheating is to be honest with ur parter and it has to do with detemination

Dont u tink dat som of d ppl who cheat rily love their spouse? For some it is just a habbit
and they cant stop it.... And i agree wit bein honnest, but sometimes when u ask ur bf/gf
questions they no go like dat.... questions like, where were u? wht time r u comin home,
who r u wit,....

Posted: at 23-10-2010 08:39 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Another problem is Immaturity...Too many immature minds are going into love relationships today, expecting all to be rosy and that's why at the slightest provocation from their partners, they go GAGA! A love relationship, requires lots of maturity from both parties, which breeds tolerance...

Very nice one!

It takes a matured mind and a lot of tolerance!
But it is not always easy for everybody.. pll get annoyed very fast sometimes!

Posted: at 23-10-2010 08:44 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

For communication,most couples don't know how to communicate well with their partners. While communicatio, they always raise their voices or even interrupt one other will talking being unable to listen to what the other person is saying.

As for the other part,couples complain that their partners don't spend enough time with them.They always concentrate on work,other friends and their family.This reduces the trust level in the relationship as one thinks that the other is not serious about the relationship.

That is true, many ppl talk but when it is an 'empty' conversation
it would be better not to talk at all!
Interrupting when i am talking is very disturbing to me, because it makes me feel like u dont
respect what i have to say.

Spending time with each other is indeed very imporant, when it is quality time!
But to do all of these things is not always possible...

So therefore....wahala comes!
 

too much sometimes

Posted: at 23-10-2010 08:45 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

The idea of having "a third party".Its very bad.

Posted: at 23-10-2010 08:47 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Another problem is Immaturity...Too many immature minds are going into love relationships today, expecting all to be rosy and that's why at the slightest provocation from their partners, they go GAGA! A love relationship, requires lots of maturity from both parties, which breeds tolerance...

Very nice one!

It takes a matured mind and a lot of tolerance!
But it is not always easy for everybody.. pll get annoyed very fast sometimes!

That's why they gotta grow up...

Posted: at 23-10-2010 08:48 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

The idea of having "a third party".Its very bad.

Hmmm xplain pls ?

Posted: at 23-10-2010 08:53 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Another problem is Immaturity...Too many immature minds are going into love relationships today, expecting all to be rosy and that's why at the slightest provocation from their partners, they go GAGA! A love relationship, requires lots of maturity from both parties, which breeds tolerance...

Very nice one!

It takes a matured mind and a lot of tolerance!
But it is not always easy for everybody.. pll get annoyed very fast sometimes!

That's why they gotta grow up...

it dusn go over nite 

Posted: at 23-10-2010 08:54 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Trust,friends ideas,sex,money,pride,shame.Wat else? Hmn i'm coming

yes correct!

But for friends ideas u hav to giv me som explanation?
And which kind shame we talkin abt ?

friends can try to disqualify  ur partner saying he/she is not good enough 4 u.Some guys/girls are naturally shy,dat may also cause problems if d partner cannot cope with dat

Posted: at 23-10-2010 09:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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