so am datin dis guy n we'v bin goin out 4 lyk 10 mnths, den i found out he ws a muslim that is 2 say he lied 2 me at 1st. he evn attnd church and al dat. tld him i ws breakn up n he statd begn that he did wat he did cos of luv. i want out bt he went tru alot cos his fellow muslims dissed him that hw can he deny his religion bcos of a gal. his really crazy abt me.

please advis me!!!!

Post Reply

Posted: at 24-10-2010 09:06 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

I think he should have been honest right from the start. If he really loved you the way he said he did then he should have told you instead of you having to find out for yourself. Do what you think is right for you. if you are staying, let it be because you love him and your believe are not against it. let it not because you feel pity for him because his fellow Muslims dissed him and then you feel bad having to leave him after everything he went through. Moreover, He was the one that was not honest in the first place.

Posted: at 24-10-2010 09:13 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

B4 i say anything deep down in ur heart do u really really love this dude?

Posted: at 24-10-2010 09:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

[yurdi*ksweet]

Dat's a Good Question yurdi*ksweet

Cos if yu Don't Love him Poster, yu should not encourage the Relationship. He is Willing to Give up his Religion for yu and l believe there might be Other Things to Give up after that

If the "Giving up Stuffs" for yu Continues and yu don't Sacrifice  things for him, he might start Feeling yu Owe him and dat's where the Wahala Begins

Posted: at 24-10-2010 09:25 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Kennee u don talk am finish......how far na.hammy sunday....

Posted: at 24-10-2010 09:34 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

,mmm

Posted: at 24-10-2010 09:38 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

If u no get something to talk why u no just waka pass......watin be mmm

Posted: at 24-10-2010 09:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

If u no get something to talk why u no just waka pass......watin be mmm

Funny but true...

Posted: at 24-10-2010 09:41 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

[yurdi*ksweet]

Dat's a Good Question yurdi*ksweet

Cos if yu Don't Love him Poster, yu should not encourage the Relationship. He is Willing to Give up his Religion for yu and l believe there might be Other Things to Give up after that

If the "Giving up Stuffs" for yu Continues and yu don't Sacrifice  things for him, he might start Feeling yu Owe him and dat's where the Wahala Begins

Gbam kenne have said it all.
2 things that can nvr be left out in a relationship is Trust and Sacrifice, sorry he lied to you in the begining but like u said he did that cos he loves you, he was scared of loosing you to someone else, u jst have to forgive him and move on.
u nvr can tell u might end up converting him to christianity and thats 1 record for you in heaven.

Posted: at 24-10-2010 09:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

na me una wan face? C dis ppl o...

Posted: at 24-10-2010 09:49 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Well...do wat u gotta do!
Bt if u're staying,it shldnt be outta pity.
We no fit advice people again o!
We sef get our own problems o!

Posted: at 24-10-2010 11:12 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

[yurdi*ksweet]

Dat's a Good Question yurdi*ksweet

Cos if yu Don't Love him Poster, yu should not encourage the Relationship. He is Willing to Give up his Religion for yu and l believe there might be Other Things to Give up after that

If the "Giving up Stuffs" for yu Continues and yu don't Sacrifice  things for him, he might start Feeling yu Owe him and dat's where the Wahala Begins

Gbam kenne have said it all.
2 things that can nvr be left out in a relationship is Trust and Sacrifice, sorry he lied to you in the begining but like u said he did that cos he loves you, he was scared of loosing you to someone else, u jst have to forgive him and move on.
u nvr can tell u might end up converting him to christianity and thats 1 record for you in heaven.

u heard dem

Posted: at 24-10-2010 11:45 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

I think he really luvs you,but do you love him?.I mean forget religion cos wat matters here is "love and respect".

Posted: at 25-10-2010 12:10 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

go sleep

Posted: at 25-10-2010 12:12 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

who?

Posted: at 25-10-2010 12:13 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

lol 

Posted: at 25-10-2010 12:18 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Maybe na me he dey tell no mind am

Posted: at 25-10-2010 12:24 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

so am datin dis guy n we'v bin goin out 4 lyk 10 mnths, den i found out he ws a muslim that is 2 say he lied 2 me at 1st. he evn attnd church and al dat. tld him i ws breakn up n he statd begn that he did wat he did cos of luv. i want out bt he went tru alot cos his fellow muslims dissed him that hw can he deny his religion bcos of a gal. his really crazy abt me.

please advis me!!!!

the guy likes you .....maybe he should be play square and face you like a man but he likes you

Posted: at 25-10-2010 12:25 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

[yurdi*ksweet]

Dat's a Good Question yurdi*ksweet

Cos if yu Don't Love him Poster, yu should not encourage the Relationship. He is Willing to Give up his Religion for yu and l believe there might be Other Things to Give up after that

If the "Giving up Stuffs" for yu Continues and yu don't Sacrifice  things for him, he might start Feeling yu Owe him and dat's where the Wahala Begins

Gbam kenne have said it all.
2 things that can nvr be left out in a relationship is Trust and Sacrifice, sorry he lied to you in the begining but like u said he did that cos he loves you, he was scared of loosing you to someone else, u jst have to forgive him and move on.
u nvr can tell u might end up converting him to christianity and thats 1 record for you in heaven.

10ks jare

Posted: at 25-10-2010 07:12 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Ur welcome dear

Posted: at 25-10-2010 07:14 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Reply: