It is all about my girl friend...she have a boy who she calm to love and they have been dating and they both have a handsome son together later she traveled to europe for her masters and met another guy who calms he is in love with her but he his a big player.i have tried talking to my friend to leave him but she wouldn´t,today she tells me it over between them and tomorrow i see them together kissing and fooling themselves.the worse of all is that both of them fight everyday  sometimes on phone,street,home,supermarkt even when she tell the stupid guy to go home he will  neva leave,he steals her money and her wallet and say all sort of shameful words in front of friend taking her keys telling her to go and cook for him that he is the man of the house.the boyfriend at  home don´t know about this he thinks the wife to be is a saint . she keeps telling me everynow and then that she loves her boyfriend at home and she is not ready to loss  him.  soon the boyfriend in nigeria will be coming  to join her here .pls readers tell me what should i advise her i have tried and i don´t want her to loss  her God sent husband or should i just sit and watch her ruin all what she has bulid for years .................................

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Posted: at 29-11-2010 11:30 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Well,
She is lost in the wilderness of doom.
The fruit of infidelity
Only God can rescue her.

Posted: at 29-11-2010 11:43 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

It is all about my girl friend...she have a boy who she calm to love and they have been dating and they both have a handsome son together later she traveled to europe for her masters and met another guy who calms he is in love with her but he his a big player.i have tried talking to my friend to leave him but she wouldn´t,today she tells me it over between them and tomorrow i see them together kissing and fooling themselves.the worse of all is that both of them fight everyday  sometimes on phone,street,home,supermarkt even when she tell the stupid guy to go home he will  neva leave,he steals her money and her wallet and say all sort of shameful words in front of friend taking her keys telling her to go and cook for him that he is the man of the house.the boyfriend at  home don´t know about this he thinks the wife to be is a saint . she keeps telling me everynow and then that she loves her boyfriend at home and she is not ready to loss  him.  soon the boyfriend in nigeria will be coming  to join her here .pls readers tell me what should i advise her i have tried and i don´t want her to loss  her God sent husband or should i just sit and watch her ruin all what she has bulid for years .................................

She will soon get the result of what she is doing.. if she will not listen to your advise, then let her be, don't force her anymore. when the guy from Nigeria will come over, he will surely see with his eyes, everything happens for a reason in people's life.

Posted: at 30-11-2010 12:35 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

you are right @dirtykid

Posted: at 30-11-2010 12:41 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

She wont escape it. She has already lost the naija guy....how do you know that the guy in naija wont/dont know the europe guy? This world is very very small....she wont have any one of them.....my only guess is that she would end up with you because you seem to care too much for her, dont you? And she likes you too....im sure you wont want her to suffer, would you?

Posted: at 30-11-2010 02:00 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

true talk

Posted: at 30-11-2010 02:03 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i'm out of breath

Posted: at 30-11-2010 02:09 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

[See ppl messing up their lives!]

See ppl messing up their lives!

Posted: at 30-11-2010 09:04 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

she will reap the fruit of her labour no probs abt tht at all

Posted: at 30-11-2010 09:10 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

She started it and she knows what is best good
for her.

Posted: at 30-11-2010 09:12 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

She started it and she knows what is best good
for her.

Gbam.

Posted: at 30-11-2010 09:27 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

She started it and she knows what is best good
for her.

nice one

Posted: at 30-11-2010 10:31 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Poster, let her be, she will soon dance naked b4 the masqurade. She went to European to satisfy the fool on the street of ......... and not masters.


Like SAMBOKO rightly said, (my only guess is that she would end up with you because you seem to care too much for her)so be ready to add to ur house.

Posted: at 30-11-2010 10:38 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Tell her that i am available!

Posted: at 30-11-2010 10:48 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

@poster there is no advers we can give u to add the one u gave her that she will listen to so u hv done ur best as a friend she is big enough to know wats good and bad and she choose to follow the bad road o da bea. ( Ihen oyen me tere ya were isi ya buru )

Posted: at 30-11-2010 10:55 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@poster there is no advers we can give u to add the one u gave her that she will listen to so u hv done ur best as a friend she is big enough to know wats good and bad and she choose to follow the bad road o da bea. ( Ihen oyen me tere ya were isi ya buru )

advice

Posted: at 30-11-2010 10:56 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

ok oooo

Posted: at 30-11-2010 10:57 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

consult me

Posted: at 30-11-2010 11:09 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

she is floating when she wants to settle she will know wat to do.
just keep ur advice for ur personal use

Posted: at 30-11-2010 11:19 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

hmmm
nothing 2 say

Posted: at 30-11-2010 11:34 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

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