Wetin na? abi u be him descendant?

Posted: at 23-02-2011 10:39 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

it is very painful that the one u so much  loved and married
will radicaly change in a twinkle of eye, because of their bad interest to marriage
as for me,true love is no more existing and again, why should women thinking
that the frick love played in a script must be the terms of ur marriage system?
emeka ike and genevive , playing love and when u marry u think that ur husband must be like that or no way  for him

Posted: at 23-02-2011 08:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

hmmmmmmmmmmm na una sabi........

Posted: at 23-02-2011 08:31 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

RELATIONSHIP AND DATING GURUS SAY THAT A MAN GOES INTO A RELATIONSHIP HOPING HIS LADY DOESNT CHANGE AND YET SHE DOES,WHILE A LADY GOES INTO A RELATIONSHIP HOPING THAT HIS MAN WILL CHANGE AND YET HE DOESNT.WOMEN ARE VERY FRAGILE AND SUBJECT TO CHANGE AT ANYTIME.THE EARLIER YOU UNDERSTAND THIS THE BETTER.YOU WILL HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO GET USED TO IT.

Posted: at 23-02-2011 08:56 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

in the holy bible marriage is a sacred. the god joined the person together with thier paths staying forever and to loved and beloved. if u got married u have given the half of ur life to the person and will never complete again. since my word that ive said is like this. the fact is there is nobody and never been changed after marriage. a person that u married and loved the day of the holy wed is the person u will know and u will see until the end of staying together in this world. the fault is . dont try to rush the marriage . marriage is sacred and sacred means important. important means you must see it well and check well like a food so that you will not poison and not die after you will regret it and find another one more poisonoss that the first one. if the heart died we like to look for somebody to kill it again. so the truth is you must know him or her that both of you have stayed for almost a years i said years not a year. years will know everything staying and live in together consigning themselves for all problems first is God and church second is money. how to buy toothpaste and tissue which the smallest expenses in the house. how to spend and save the money and all money problems. third is a bed. the bed of night and day which you will share the story and memories of the past while you in primary school. a man has needs and woman has needs. if God and money and sex are around in the whole house nothing will happen to the relationship. even you kids are 10. even two of you have bad breath when wake up in the morning. even you are toileting so smelly. even you no manners. love is love. and if you prefer to stay to a person. its already beloved and loved and love is around. but try to remember this three things ive said and a years to past tru with savings and relationship together. till dawn. you will never ever said that somebody have change after marriage. thank you and Gob bless all of us.

Posted: at 24-02-2011 05:18 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

every marriage dat has love as d bedrock always stand even in d midst of storms and waves.

Posted: at 24-02-2011 09:29 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

The classic mistake. Never marry potential. The golden rule is, if you can't be happy with the person the way he or she is now, don't get married. As a colleague of mine so wisely put it, "You actually can expect people to change after they're married... for the worst!"
So when it comes to the other person's spirituality, character, personal hygiene, communication skills, and personal habits, make sure you can live with these as they are now.

Posted: at 24-02-2011 10:02 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Hard learned lesson.

Posted: at 24-02-2011 10:08 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

[You choose the wrong person because you get intimately involved too quickly]

You choose the wrong person because you get intimately involved too quickly.
Intimacy before the commitment of marriage can be a big problem because it often precludes a fully honest exploration of important issues. Physical involvement tends to cloud one's mind. And a clouded mind is not inclined to make good decisions.
It is not necessary to take a "test drive" in order to find out if a couple is physically compatible. If you do your homework and make sure you are intellectually and emotionally compatible, you don't have to worry about it. Of all the studies done on divorce, incompatibility in the intimate arena is almost never cited as a main reason why people divorce.

Posted: at 24-02-2011 10:09 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Adams Congrat ooo, if no be say ur mouth too red i for give you betterer ..............

Posted: at 24-02-2011 10:14 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Priceless knowledge.

Posted: at 24-02-2011 10:15 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Adams Congrat ooo, if no be say ur mouth too red i for give you better ..............

Posted: at 24-02-2011 10:17 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Adams Congrat ooo, if no be say ur mouth too red i for give you betterer ..............

And now weting you go come give me?

Posted: at 24-02-2011 10:17 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

Posted: at 24-02-2011 10:20 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Thank you for the morning 

Posted: at 24-02-2011 10:23 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

There are three basic ways we connect with another person:
1.   chemistry and compatibility
2.   share common interests
3.   share common life goal
Make sure you share the deeper level of connection that sharing life goals provide. After marriage, the two of you will either grow together or grow apart. To avoid growing apart, you must figure out what you're "living for," while you're single -- and then find someone who has come to the same conclusion as you.
This is the true definition of a "soul mate." A soul mate is a goal mate -- two people who ultimately share the same understanding of life's purpose and therefore share the same priorities, values and goals.

Posted: at 24-02-2011 10:26 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

[to achieve a meaningful unity for life]

There are three basic ways we connect with another person:
1.   chemistry and compatibility
2.   share common interests
3.   share common life goal
Make sure you share the deeper level of connection that sharing life goals provide. After marriage, the two of you will either grow together or grow apart. To avoid growing apart, you must figure out what you're "living for," while you're single -- and then find someone who has come to the same conclusion as you.
This is the true definition of a "soul mate." A soul mate is a goal mate -- two people who ultimately share the same understanding of life's purpose and therefore share the same priorities, values and goals.

his is the true definition of a "soul mate." A soul mate is a goal mate -- two people who ultimately share the same understanding of life's purpose and therefore share the same priorities, values and goal to achieve a meaningful unity for life. where all this de come from today?

Posted: at 24-02-2011 10:29 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Are you asking me?  Na the question me sef dey try to answer, abi i no do well? @Adams

Posted: at 24-02-2011 11:24 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

so is d sam 2 men

Posted: at 24-02-2011 11:28 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Marry another wife if she dey fumble

chief adviser....

Posted: at 24-02-2011 11:31 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

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