I fell in love with an igbo man here in London and was seeing this man for almost 5 years to find out he was only interested in me if I got pregnant for him or marry him so he can get his stay here. I so much trusted and believed in him and cannot seem to get over him. Many of days I am at work with tears in my eyes, in the streets, unable to sleep!


When others were warning me about his motives I kept saying everyone is not the same...now I felt it ok. I wasted all my love and attention and now I feel like am going insane!!!!

Why do people do this to others just for the sake of a piece of paper???

All I can think now are evil thoughts and am not a person to think such things.....please God help me!!!!!

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Posted: at 7-07-2011 04:42 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

I've told you guys to quit falling in love

Posted: at 7-07-2011 05:12 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Doh worry o another will never have such chance!! Just made me feel like a fool as I encouraged my sister to date a Nigerian man as was made to believe they make good husbands and care about the family and he aslo turned out to be a dam liar and was married and said he was not!! Now she has his baby and he would tell her to go read her bible steupppppssss!!!!!!

Posted: at 7-07-2011 06:07 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

I fell in love with an igbo man here in London and was seeing this man for almost 5 years to find out he was only interested in me if I got pregnant for him or marry him so he can get his stay here. I so much trusted and believed in him and cannot seem to get over him. Many of days I am at work with tears in my eyes, in the streets, unable to sleep!

When others were warning me about his motives I kept saying everyone is not the same...now I felt it ok. I wasted all my love and attention and now I feel like am going insane!!!!

Why do people do this to others just for the sake of a piece of paper???

All I can think now are evil thoughts and am not a person to think such things.....please God help me!!!!!

be careful my dear .  a baby not a tools %

Posted: at 7-07-2011 06:43 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

a baby come with reponsibility.

Posted: at 7-07-2011 06:44 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

dis one na serious issue oooo ,just 4get abt him..
dont worry u will surely meet d bone of ur bone,some one dat will love u 4 real

Posted: at 7-07-2011 08:35 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I've told you guys to quit falling in love

i hear

Posted: at 7-07-2011 08:36 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

My dear LaQueen,dat insect wasted 5 years of ur life and u dnt knw wat 2 do with him???
Dump him like the garbage that he is!!!
He never loved u frm the start!

Posted: at 7-07-2011 08:42 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Quit falling in luv

Posted: at 7-07-2011 08:43 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Quit falling in luv

why na?
Even u?

Posted: at 7-07-2011 08:45 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

No one can stop me

Posted: at 7-07-2011 09:17 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

sorry,but the damage has been done.ITS FOOLISH TO KICK THE SAME STONE TWICE,please learn.

Posted: at 7-07-2011 10:24 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

Xena stop what go get my suya jor

Posted: at 7-07-2011 10:32 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

I fell in love with an igbo man here in London and was seeing this man for almost 5 years to find out he was only interested in me if I got pregnant for him or marry him so he can get his stay here. I so much trusted and believed in him and cannot seem to get over him. Many of days I am at work with tears in my eyes, in the streets, unable to sleep!

When others were warning me about his motives I kept saying everyone is not the same...now I felt it ok. I wasted all my love and attention and now I feel like am going insane!!!!

Why do people do this to others just for the sake of a piece of paper???

All I can think now are evil thoughts and am not a person to think such things.....please God help me!!!!!

Cheiii....Sorry my dear...Naija guys in abroad are always like that(at least 95% of them)......Next Shine your eyez wella 

Posted: at 7-07-2011 11:01 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

I fell in love with an igbo man here in London and was seeing this man for almost 5 years to find out he was only interested in me if I got pregnant for him or marry him so he can get his stay here. I so much trusted and believed in him and cannot seem to get over him. Many of days I am at work with tears in my eyes, in the streets, unable to sleep!

When others were warning me about his motives I kept saying everyone is not the same...now I felt it ok. I wasted all my love and attention and now I feel like am going insane!!!!

Why do people do this to others just for the sake of a piece of paper???

All I can think now are evil thoughts and am not a person to think such things.....please God help me!!!!!

Cheiii....Sorry my dear...Naija guys in abroad are always like that(at least 95% of them)......Next Shine your eyez wella 

95% of them?.wow!.tht's not true.

Posted: at 7-07-2011 11:26 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

@poster.sorry to hear that.but you know,every disappointment is a blessing.put your self together,see this as a blessing from God becos of your lil angel.

Posted: at 7-07-2011 11:29 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

 

Posted: at 7-07-2011 11:37 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

I fell in love with an igbo man here in London and was seeing this man for almost 5 years to find out he was only interested in me if I got pregnant for him or marry him so he can get his stay here. I so much trusted and believed in him and cannot seem to get over him. Many of days I am at work with tears in my eyes, in the streets, unable to sleep!

When others were warning me about his motives I kept saying everyone is not the same...now I felt it ok. I wasted all my love and attention and now I feel like am going insane!!!!

Why do people do this to others just for the sake of a piece of paper???

All I can think now are evil thoughts and am not a person to think such things.....please God help me!!!!!

Cheiii....Sorry my dear...Naija guys in abroad are always like that(at least 95% of them)......Next Shine your eyez wella 

oh dear am sorry for that,how did you think some one will spend one million naira travel abroad to make love or to look fine houses,no their dont travel because of woman, their travel abroad to make money for their families,their all have responsibility,their have many thing to take care of.so be careful

Posted: at 7-07-2011 11:55 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

broken heart again.make i run

Posted: at 7-07-2011 12:00 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

[5 years of pretence? That guy is heartless! Don't waste not even a sec more thinking of him!Look only forward]

I fell in love with an igbo man here in London and was seeing this man for almost 5 years to find out he was only interested in me if I got pregnant for him or marry him so he can get his stay here. I so much trusted and believed in him and cannot seem to get over him. Many of days I am at work with tears in my eyes, in the streets, unable to sleep!

When others were warning me about his motives I kept saying everyone is not the same...now I felt it ok. I wasted all my love and attention and now I feel like am going insane!!!!

Why do people do this to others just for the sake of a piece of paper???

All I can think now are evil thoughts and am not a person to think such things.....please God help me!!!!!

5 years of pretence?  That guy is heartless!
Don't waste not even a sec more thinking of him!
Look only forward

Posted: at 7-07-2011 12:01 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

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