my Naija people.....and i need some serious answers/opinions to this situation..i mean real talk... *before you go any further to say/ask if it refers to me, no it doesnt....i already have a bf and juz tryna help a frend wih ur opinions...

My friend likes this guy..in fact she's told me she has had sex wit the guy..but d thing is they are not dating...but apparently  she really does like him..they do stuff together like watching movies, playing games, eating, and talking..abt deir lives/past/future dreams....well i have seen dem 2gether and they really are kinda close...a problem is that HE WAS BANGING OTHER GIRLS FOR A WHILE WHEN HE WAS ALSO DOING HER!!!!! *can u imagine*..she knows this cos he just opened up and confessed/told her and also told her that he is stopping it (i dunno if he has stoppd)..and is making efforts to be with her.another thing is she is a very good cook..so i dunno if he is hanging arnd wiv her so he can hav sum home made meals...she told me and i adviced her that in order to know if he will stick around, let her cut out the cooking and sex and see if he will still hang around wiv her....i dunno if i said d right thing cos guys hav different mentalities ...so would y'all please give me ur opinion on dis or any other stategy she can use...*cos i can already picture her weeping and gettx depressed wen he leaves and i dont want her going thru that*

   thx 4 d help pals...i appreciate

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Posted: at 23-12-2008 12:38 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Just tell her 2 Stick 2 d Fun She's havin and not try and Spoil things

They Obviously like each otha. If she decides to take dat Advice yu gave her, she'll only hurt herself

If it's gonna grow in2 Luv, it'll happen. She shouldn't try 2 rush it

Posted: at 23-12-2008 01:10 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

The woman in the Iron Mask!

Posted: at 23-12-2008 01:15 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

The woman in the Iron Mask!

umm i dont get...

Posted: at 23-12-2008 02:25 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i think half of what u told her to do is right
but if she backs off just like that at once,
he will get suspicious

Posted: at 23-12-2008 02:27 AM (15 years ago) | Hero

Just tell her 2 Stick 2 d Fun She's havin and not try and Spoil things

They Obviously like each otha. If she decides to take dat Advice yu gave her, she'll only hurt herself

If it's gonna grow in2 Luv, it'll happen. She shouldn't try 2 rush it

well said kennee....
@chi-babe...ur friend should let things develop naturally.
she shouldn't try to impress d guy unnecessarily.
love will always find a way.

Posted: at 23-12-2008 09:48 AM (15 years ago) | Hero

oh how i wish i have a good advise for her
any way let her stop all the things she's
doing for him and watch his reaction
if he stay that means he loves her but
if he took a french leav the girl should
4get about him and take heart

Posted: at 23-12-2008 11:59 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

oh how i wish i have a good advise for her
any way let her stop all the things she's
doing for him and watch his reaction
if he stay that means he loves her but
if he took a french leav the girl should
4get about him and take heart

yep...i agree wit dat

Posted: at 23-12-2008 01:06 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

friends with benefits....
tell her the benefits r ok....

Posted: at 23-12-2008 01:26 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

the only thing i need u to tell ur friend is that she should WAKE UP EARLY ENUFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted: at 23-12-2008 02:09 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

oh how i wish i have a good advise for her
any way let her stop all the things she's
doing for him and watch his reaction
if he stay that means he loves her but
if he took a french leav the girl should
4get about him and take heart

Obviously yu are gettin the whole thing Wrong

Posted: at 24-12-2008 12:13 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

No advice
Listen to others...

Posted: at 24-12-2008 12:32 AM (15 years ago) | Hero

tell her to continue.since she love the guy.she can win his heart through doing what she is doing.

Posted: at 15-07-2011 02:18 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

Just tell her 2 Stick 2 d Fun She's havin and not try and Spoil things

They Obviously like each otha. If she decides to take dat Advice yu gave her, she'll only hurt herself

If it's gonna grow in2 Luv, it'll happen. She shouldn't try 2 rush it

Posted: at 15-07-2011 02:54 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

men can be funny, free s*x and well prepared meal. hummmmm 

Posted: at 15-07-2011 03:27 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Imagine

Posted: at 15-07-2011 03:46 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

local say a way to a man heart is food..is bullshit..don't take that saying..
tell your friend to stay and still having fun with him and see if things will change or grow

Posted: at 15-07-2011 10:21 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

brb

Posted: at 15-07-2011 10:24 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

where the f you going?

Posted: at 15-07-2011 10:26 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

lol...........to d toilet sup!

Posted: at 15-07-2011 10:31 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

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