Imagine a situation where you have guys that are dying for you. Fortunately and unfortunately, you have a boyfriend of 2 years. But he's 6 hours drive away from you but you guys talk on the phone daily. However you have this really really HOT guy that you met and you took interest in him. Things are going on fine and he wants to spend some time with you and watch movies. Though you told him that you're committed, he still wants to be with you. You really like this guy. What would you do if you're in my shoes. Would you play along and hope that your boyfriend doesn't find out or take a different approach to things!
Posted: at 1-03-2008 02:37 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
your post is very funny.....I expect you to know that what you are oding is very bad.....I feel you are cheap...,,, I mean dont you have conscience that it is wrong?? if you dont see it as wrong uptil now.....there is nothing anyone here can say that will make you see it as such........if you are treated like that I think you wont be happy....and for the other guy that comes around when your main is away......he will surely reap of it....with you....you two are really unfaithful....I wonder what you will turn into when you get married.....
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Posted: at 1-03-2008 05:30 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
honeychick at 1-03-2008 11:56 PM (16 years ago) (f)
I mean dont you have conscience that it is wrong?? if you dont see it as wrong uptil now.....there is nothing anyone here can say that will make you see it as such........if you are treated like that I think you wont be happy....and for the other guy that comes around when your main is away......he will surely reap of it....with you....you two are really unfaithful....I wonder what you will turn into when you get married.....
I THINK THAT WILL BE ENOUGH FOR UR QUESTION, SOMEHOW MEAN BUT ITS STILL AN ADVICE ANYWAY.
Posted: at 1-03-2008 11:56 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
Hey u can't eat ur cake and have it obviously u r not commited to the other guy so cheating is ur habit and even if he was 10 minutes drive away u would still cheat eventually once u see a hot guy......It is all in ur head first.........O u gotta make ur choice and i bet if u choose this new guy when u find a more hotter guy u will go out with him too......keep on mama......later i will hear girl complaining bout how boys are dogs
CHUKS ~step into my world....oops u can't handle it.
Posted: at 2-03-2008 04:13 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
my dear two years is a long time for you to throw away because a really really HOT guys is showing some interest in you. You need to stand firm on your word that you are committed and that you do not want anything to do with him because you are taken. Obviously he is not accepting that and i think you should cut all connection with him and focus your attention on your boyfriend. he maybe 6 hours away but it is not that far compared to people who are in long distant relationships where one is living in another state or country. if you do not want to be with your boyfriend anymore because of this guy then break it off before he finds out what you have been doing. Good luck
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Posted: at 2-03-2008 11:24 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
Imagine a situation where you have guys that are dying for you. Fortunately and unfortunately, you have a boyfriend of 2 years. But he's 6 hours drive away from you but you guys talk on the phone daily. However you have this really really HOT guy that you met and you took interest in him. Things are going on fine and he wants to spend some time with you and watch movies. Though you told him that you're committed, he still wants to be with you. You really like this guy. What would you do if you're in my shoes. Would you play along and hope that your boyfriend doesn't find out or take a different approach to things!
Same situation happened to mii BUT the different between us is that I dated my guy for 4 years and I never compromised cuz of some hot guys. Pls hot guys come and go but a good guy is once in a blue sun. How many guys will stay with you for 2 years? be wise
Posted: at 3-03-2008 03:32 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
myragonza at 3-03-2008 12:29 PM (16 years ago) (f)
i don't know.....if he wants to treat me for a movie or dinner or coffee,i wouldn't mind....but i will still tell him that i am commited to my one and only boo......
i don't know.....if he wants to treat me for a movie or dinner or coffee,i wouldn't mind....but i will still tell him that i am commited to my one and only boo......
Wouldn't that be considered as cheating on your boo ??
dejifortune at 4-03-2008 01:23 AM (16 years ago) (m)
why do u wanna date someone else when he is just 6hrs drive from you....are u sure u love him? i mean u are a girl and u should have standard for your life, what if the new guy have to move like 6hrs drive from you again,. then u will be thinking of getting another guy abi? just remember that u are a lady and u should have some kind of pride for yourself....so are u saying if u got married and you husband have to work far from you then u will be thinking of Extra Marital Affiars?...........Think with you heart not your head...all the best
dejifortunecares
Posted: at 4-03-2008 01:23 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
myragonza at 4-03-2008 12:16 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dejifortune on 4-03-2008 01:23 AM
why do u wanna date someone else when he is just 6hrs drive from you....are u sure u love him? i mean u are a girl and u should have standard for your life, what if the new guy have to move like 6hrs drive from you again,. then u will be thinking of getting another guy abi? just remember that u are a lady and u should have some kind of pride for yourself....so are u saying if u got married and you husband have to work far from you then u will be thinking of Extra Marital Affiars?...........Think with you heart not your head...all the best
honeychick at 4-03-2008 10:55 PM (16 years ago) (f)
@ grease. lol............ myra u and this ur UFO sef, lol.......
mine is that 6hrs drive is not bad at all. i think u should just levae dem really HOT guys and be wid yo man. these guys sayin they wanna be wid u even though u have a bf, are u sure they love u? they might, guys and dem trouble.
once again, lol @ grease.
Posted: at 4-03-2008 10:55 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
Imagine a situation where you have guys that are dying for you. Fortunately and unfortunately, you have a boyfriend of 2 years. But he's 6 hours drive away from you but you guys talk on the phone daily. However you have this really really HOT guy that you met and you took interest in him. Things are going on fine and he wants to spend some time with you and watch movies. Though you told him that you're committed, he still wants to be with you. You really like this guy. What would you do if you're in my shoes. Would you play along and hope that your boyfriend doesn't find out or take a different approach to things!
i'm gonna keep him very close!!
Posted: at 4-03-2008 11:28 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
dejifortune at 4-03-2008 11:38 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Quote from: honeychick on 4-03-2008 10:55 PM
@ grease. lol............ myra u and this ur UFO sef, lol.......
mine is that 6hrs drive is not bad at all. i think u should just levae dem really HOT guys and be wid yo man. these guys sayin they wanna be wid u even though u have a bf, are u sure they love u? they might, guys and dem trouble.
once again, lol @ grease.
Lol
dejifortunecares
Posted: at 4-03-2008 11:38 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac