I have tried everything possible to work in peace with my female colleague in the office, but all effort seems like am wasting my time.

I have been patience where am not suspose to be, been quite where i should not be, but all in vain. 

Someone should advise me on the best way to cope with a female colleague b4 i go Mad.


NO INSULT PLS.

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Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:13 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

I have tried everything possible to work in peace with my female colleague in the office, but all effort seems like am wasting my time.
I have been patience where am not suspose to be, been quite where i should not be, but all in vain. 

Someone should advise me on the best way to cope with a female colleague b4 i go Mad.


NO INSULT PLS.

is she been competitive,overbearing,unpleasant..or a backstabber?

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:17 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

give me her number i know what to do

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:21 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

T2  long time, 

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:24 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

[overbearing]

@Sophie, (is she been competitive,overbearing,unpleasant..or a backstabber?)

If is competition, she is not my equal at all, am in managerial level while she is in Admin.

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:28 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

T2  long time, 

hmmm, oga 50 penny, how is life?

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:29 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

[overbearing]

@Sophie, (is she been competitive,overbearing,unpleasant..or a backstabber?)

If is competition, she is not my equal at all, am in managerial level while she is in Admin.

if its not competition then wat is it?............. or u dont wanna give us the full details

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:31 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

Perhaps she sees more of your admirer than she gets cos to me that is an unbearable aspect of ladies in most offices. Am experiencing it here though am a guy but boss (lady) is always jealous seeing ladies come around me, i don't know her problem.

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:32 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

if its not competition then wat is it?............. or u dont wanna give us the full details

@Blings, you sef knw say level pas level.

Sincerely, i don't knw what is her problem and will like advise from Pals bc i don't want to regret any action bc am close to one to get her off my back.

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:37 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

Perhaps she sees more of your admirer than she gets cos to me that is an unbearable aspect of ladies in most offices. Am experiencing it here though am a guy but boss (lady) is always jealous seeing ladies come around me, i don't know her problem.

my guy u know what she wants...... be bold and give it to her...... xcept shez not turning u on

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:39 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

Perhaps she sees more of your admirer than she gets cos to me that is an unbearable aspect of ladies in most offices. Am experiencing it here though am a guy but boss (lady) is always jealous seeing ladies come around me, i don't know her problem.

Her problem is, you should ignore the ladies and pay more attention to her. lol

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:39 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

[overbearing]

@Sophie, (is she been competitive,overbearing,unpleasant..or a backstabber?)

If is competition, she is not my equal at all, am in managerial level while she is in Admin.

have u confronted her abt it?

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:40 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

@Blings, you sef knw say level pas level.

Sincerely, i don't knw what is her problem and will like advise from Pals bc i don't want to regret any action bc am close to one to get her off my back.

whenever she sees u what does she do?

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:41 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

have u confronted her abt it?

Many times and am not ready to ask again.  

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:42 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

whenever she sees u what does she do?

Hissssss.

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:43 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

Many times and am not ready to ask again.  

wats really the prob ? enlighten me more abt her overbearing attitude..so that i can no where to start frm

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:44 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

hmmm, oga 50 penny, how is life?

Life is GOOD, long time too how is work 

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:48 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Just came bad from oversea trip and went round to say hello to all but went to her office first and got what i list bargain. Her reason is that i did not take permission from her b4 travelling. 4 x my senior in the job but my junior bc of the office am in.

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:53 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

Just came back from oversea trip and went round to say hello to all but went to her office first and got what i list bargain. Her reason is that i did not take permission from her b4 travelling. 4 x my senior in the job but my junior bc of the office am in.

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:53 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

my guy u know what she wants...... be bold and give it to her...... xcept shez not turning u on

My guy she is old and not appealling at all.

Posted: at 10-02-2012 09:54 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

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