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theMOnkey speaks ------------------------------------------  to author








Young lady, never make use of the word "NEED"

But

let your mouth be of the word "HAVE"

 



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Be that someone you need in another, then you shall help to define the shape of you and the other.
In this way, if you would possess the matters you desire in another, you shall be able to accept any other.

For this, you will never be in search of another as you will never be at wait for another.  



 





Better understanding
Pal, theMOnkey



No disrespect intended ,however with the utilization of the name monkey I find it quite hard to take anything you say serious. However to entertain your comment I must say, need is the most appropriate word, as it is my believe that a woman in facts needs a man, its not a matter of want nor have. I believe it is a matter of ones perception I am having a hard time wrapping my head around yours at this point. As indicated at the very bottom of post it was explicitly said that I am not looking for yet waiting to be found, and at the very beginning it was also noted that this post was for the individuals that have left me messages inquiring of such.

I do however thank you for your response so poetically written as it was, there is always understanding in the understated.


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Posted: at 25-03-2012 09:20 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

 

Posted: at 25-03-2012 09:21 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Hmmmmm, Nike U re right ooohhhhh

Hey Samuel..wake up,wake up read all about it.. Controversy is on its way,lol.....Me no want no wahala,lol....

Posted: at 25-03-2012 09:22 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

Nice

Posted: at 25-03-2012 09:38 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

ok

Posted: at 25-03-2012 10:12 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

 

Posted: at 25-03-2012 10:20 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

Foreign policy

Posted: at 25-03-2012 10:30 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

U ARE TOO DEMANDING!!!!!!

Posted: at 25-03-2012 10:44 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

JUST BE RICH FIRST OTHER QUALITIES SHALL BE COMPROMISED SECRET OF LADIES!!!!!!!!!!

Posted: at 25-03-2012 10:53 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

EVERY WOMENS' DREAMS!!!!!!

Posted: at 25-03-2012 10:56 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

 

Posted: at 25-03-2012 11:04 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

I would av given u my bf. got all d above qualities. but ...............................

Posted: at 26-03-2012 12:38 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

O girl, stop day dreaming and live with reality. No Naija man or woman has got all the charateristics you wrote up...... Try Americans, Europeans, Asians or Latinos/other Africans. All the best in all your endeavours   -Americana   

Posted: at 26-03-2012 01:23 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

 

Posted: at 26-03-2012 01:39 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

fair enough..I just have two things that i need in a girl is just to know when to talk and when to shut up..

Posted: at 26-03-2012 03:19 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

My sister if you they wait make one naija man get all that qualities before you marry ham then ready to remain single for the rest of you life and if you think say you don see person like that make i no decisive na just temporialy

Thank you for your response, I am comfortable with remaining single for the rest of my life darling.  To be quite frank it is sad that you feel as a man that you cannot be all of that to your mate. As all things mentioned are the things that we all should have when coming together to build a wonderful relationship/marriage. I never once mentioned that I wanted a perfect nor rich man. Yet I do desire a man that can provide for himself, and that is humble enough to embrace his imperfections.

una dey impress me oo

Posted: at 26-03-2012 03:27 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

 ameera let me first start by asking how old you are and also to enquire why you attached importance in finding a perfect man, i mean a man without any fault. because it is by the grace of God the Men of God  we all are looking at in the society today, sustain in their relationship despite being a religion frontier and preach the gospel.

Life itself is full of lapses talkess of we human beings.
NB:MY ADVICE
well am not discouranging you tho since that is your priority and your desire, but i strongly believed that if  such qualities you are loking for is out there you will have found one and this will not be a topic on naija pal. pls sweetheart give it a second thought because you are not getting younger and i think everybody should pray for God to provide a good husband or wife for him or her not to be optimistic about certain qualities and also mind you be aware of pretenders in other not to be a victim of circumstances.

Posted: at 26-03-2012 05:18 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

 ameera let me first start by asking how old you are and also to enquire why you attached importance in finding a perfect man, i mean a man without any fault. because it is by the grace of God the Men of God  we all are looking at in the society today, sustain in their relationship despite being a religion frontier and preach the gospel.

Life itself is full of lapses talkess of we human beings.
NB:MY ADVICE
well am not discouranging you tho since that is your priority and your desire, but i strongly believed that if  such qualities you are loking for is out there you will have found one and this will not be a topic on naija pal. pls sweetheart give it a second thought because you are not getting younger and i think everybody should pray for God to provide a good husband or wife for him or her not to be optimistic about certain qualities and also mind you be aware of pretenders in other not to be a victim of circumstances.

Posted: at 26-03-2012 05:26 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

i wish u all dat u wished urself,God will provide the ryt person for you at the ryt time.......

Posted: at 26-03-2012 05:50 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

[Are you trying to market yourself here? lol]

Are you trying to market yourself here?  lol

Posted: at 26-03-2012 06:03 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

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